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poetry2abeat 01-09-05 11:52 PM

dont do anything dumb though just confront them and tell them how you feel, dont be scared and make an excuse like theyl make fun of me cuz they ponder your emotions one day and think about it

M-Eazy 01-10-05 01:20 AM

stand up to ur parents? lol...yea right. if i tried that, i'd be pickin up cans next week on tha street. i dont know what to tell u, kause parents are different. U SHOULD PRAY...real talk....


*dont know y i answered in thread. back to my gangsta self*


lol

ill game 01-10-05 01:30 AM

earlier i didnt think i would be saying this to u but thanks

Dabatos 01-10-05 01:32 AM

First of all, yea you should stand up to your parent's, though it is hard to do it, for some kid's, if they stand up to their parents then they will get abused, but for your case im not really sure how your parents are, will they abuse you in anyway? Since your dad always makes fun of you, you should tell him in a serious way how much you don't like it, because I am 99.9 percent sure that he will not stop untill you say so becaues he most likely enjoy's doing that, and since you hate it that they always seem to be up all in your buisness, then tell them that you really don't appreciate it and you just want to live life without them all up in your privacy. To me it seem's like they really didn't have what you have right now, meaning they never really had to have fun with their friends or have alot of g/f's or b/f's, so they basiclly get in your buisness and act like you guys are friends, so they will not stop. So you should tell them that you just dont like it. Im not going to re-read what I just typed because Im lazy so if anything in here does not make sence, then tell me, and if you need more help then go to this thread..

http://community.rapverse.com/forumdisplay.php?f=196

That thread above links to a forum where people like me and some fellow mod's will help you with your problem's. There are many threads there, but you can not see them because I have had that forum set up so the only people that can see your problems are the people that made the thread which need's help, and the mod's that are willings to help you. Anything you say in there is Very Confidential and if anyone leak's out any information they will be ip banned, So do not be afraid to post your problems in there, because I will be more gladly to help you.

poetry2abeat 01-10-05 01:35 AM

if yor parents do abuse you when you stad u dont be scared to tell someone cuz they will keep diong it, trust me

Wickedclown 01-10-05 01:36 AM

well dont take this the wrong way but... your only 15... your parents have a right to ask questions... now if u were 18 or 19 things would be differant.. when i was younger my parents would be all on me about a lot of shit to... then as time went on they gained trust and i gained freedom... so just hang with it cause it will get better dawg... they get on ya cause they care and want u to succeed in life. (is sounding like my parents... scary)

any way stay up man... and remember what i said... it gets better dont worry about it ... and the whole girl friend thing gets better too... they will be more understanding of that in a couple years homie... stay up

Dabatos 01-10-05 01:37 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by poetry2abeat
if yor parents do abuse you when you stad u dont be scared to tell someone cuz they will keep diong it, trust me


Personally, at times my mom abuses me, when I want to tell someone about it, i just seem to not beable to do it, because I don't want to see my mom go to jail. But over time she stopped, unless i make her really mad again lol, but I agree that if you get abused, you should really tell someone.

ill game 01-10-05 01:40 AM

they would never hurt me thanks for the link

ill game 01-10-05 01:41 AM

and i wanna be friends with my parents......not them in my privacy though

La Cosa Nostra 01-10-05 02:18 AM

Start acting more independant infront of them, like, do things for yourself instead of asking for their help. Your dad will gain more respect for you.

MadProphet 01-10-05 02:28 AM

shit, i started trying to act completely independent at age 10. me and like 3 of my friends would ask my neighbors if we could do any jobs for them for money so we could go eat. neighbors told my parent and they've trusted me and let me do my thing since then.

so what nos said was true, be independent and dont use your parents as a crutch, ask for help as little as possible...shit, dont even ask for rides anywhere


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