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WhoAmI 06-16-05 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by the omen
^eminem wasnt famous or rich wen haley was born... he was a peice of trailor park trash... but he made it... what if one day i get a peice of the pie and im like.. damn i coulda supported him... i just threw it all away.. n i always wanted a boy, i can always have another kid but what if its not exactly like the one i had?


i hear what you sayin g. but its really uncertain whether you gonna get the same big break that eminem did. that's all down to luck. but i know this whole situation's real tough.
On a level, do you think you'd be able to find a job to support your baby? If so i think you should try hold on to him. You and your girl don't need to be rich raise your baby right,cos a lot of its about giving your baby a loving environment and raising him to have a strong well balanced character. of course money is a big issue, but in the short term it seems to be the only issue as you three could stay at your mother's house.

But personally, i think you two should keep your baby cos if you don't you'll be spending the rest of your lives thinking 'what if...?' and that could eat up anyone inside...but its up to you g

Stay up....

the omen 06-16-05 08:22 PM

^ yea i feel u.. its a hard decision...

Viva 06-16-05 09:22 PM

omg i cant believe u would give up ur lil son like that! wat age r u? wat age is ur girl?

the omen 06-16-05 09:24 PM

^im 19 she's 17, man don't make me feel bad about it, ur actin like i did this without thought, n i honestly mite tell them tomorrow that i changed my mind, i still got 25 days...

Viva 06-16-05 09:27 PM

ur 19, shes 17.....both old enough and should be mature enough to raise ur son together. babies r a blessin, a gift and if ur old enuff to hjave sex u should be old enough to take responsability 4 ur child. damn! theres really no reason y u 2 cant look after that baby, im sorry i jus think this was a very selfish thing to do on ur part.....no hate really, im jus seeing it from the perspective of sum1 who nos a lot of young parents who r some of the best parents ive ever seen....

the omen 06-16-05 09:34 PM

^thats exactly how i feel... but then ppl are like... its selfish for you to want to keep him cuz u cant give him tha life they can...

Viva 06-16-05 09:42 PM

how is ur baby goin to feel when one day his 'parents' tell him, that his 'real' parents gave him up!? n if u have more kids which im sure u will, all those questions....especially, y didnt they want me? im not tryin to make u feel guilty but im jus offering sum other perspectives here cuz u keep sayin 'OTHER PPL' say this and that etc, seems like u n ur girl didnt even make this decision. but yo, my sis got pregnant when she was 17, still in skool and my mother was in rehab! she kept her baby n she is doin so well now, he is loved more than anything and has brought nothin but happiness 2 everyone in his life, he inspired my mom to stay str8, n my sis n her boy r living happily. of course it was hard at the start but there is NOTHING stopping u from raisin this baby rite and givin him a good life....jus ask urself really y r u giving him up?

Cesar August 06-16-05 10:05 PM

dam man...i can't picture myself doin that...i'll work my ass of for my kid

the omen 06-16-05 11:18 PM

^easier said than done... i'm granting somebodys lifelong wish with this... as much as i want to keep him... every1 is tellin me i'm not ready, insurance, diapers, work, clothes it all costs money... i cant do this rite now... i feel like if the people that are closest to me and care for me the most are telling me this then they must be looking out for me... i feel like shyt rite now... no more comments about how im a bad person pleez...

Germ 06-17-05 12:29 AM

word, much respect...that shit is hard

props to ya for keepin up and doing your thing

and keep up always.

pz

Metaz 06-17-05 01:00 AM

sad story but u know the saying...

Dont be a fool
Wrap ya tool.......

was invented for a reason

Bangalore 06-17-05 01:05 AM

i have mad respect for you man...i can't imagine putting my kid up .. i was adopted to .. your a real man and thats werd

V!ceVersa™ 06-17-05 01:39 AM

Seriously, I feel like whether you are young or old with a little support from family and friends, as well as trust in god, with or without a plan, anything is possible fam, I can't imagine how you could feel being put in a situation like that. Giving your baby up could have the been the best/worst decision, that's the reason it's so hard to handle, because you dont know whether you made the right or wrong decision. But anyway, Cute kid. Stay Up Family and stay strong..!!

--Nuff Said.

Ltizzle 06-17-05 02:42 AM

yea man...
you got my respect
big ups to lookin out for your kid, whether you let him go with his adopted parents or you decide to keep him
you'll do the right thing...

the omen 06-17-05 11:12 AM

word, much respect to everybody, thanks for the support, i guess rapverse isn't filled with 12 year old idiots, i like to c ppl come together for whatever reason....


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