lmaooo sorry i was bored

well...The reason she doesn't want to have kids is because after a session with me...I stretched her out pretty badly...and she was like if this is how painful a nigga dick is...i dont want to know how painful a baby coming out will feel.

j.p man

In being all serious. At my college they did a survey and listend options for girls to pick to not have children

1. Financial
2. The Pain
3. Time Consuming

Basically it was those top three. In that order with some others...She probbaly doesnt want the pain and most likely is scared that shed not be able to support it specially giving our nations financial crisis...Which you should obviously know about.

sounds like tha perfect girl to me. i can't understand it when i see my friends havin kids n shit, too much bullshit that comes along wif it. werd

Good point. It's not like I want a kid soon or anything. I told her we'd be over 30 fuckin' years old before I was gonna have a kid. She said "That's a good age"

but earlier she was just saying "Dont get your hopes up" etc...

so .. word.. thanks for the posts.

Replace her BC pills with sugar ones.

LOL.

............roflmfao, genius

Dick Stole my idea.



That's pretty easy to say considering it won't sit in you for 9 months, harshening everything you do and then come out YOUR vagina. If she really loves you...then she loves you but doing something against your moral code for someone you love isn't being very true to yourself. In fact, if you truly love someone, who's to say you shouldn't go the other way and put yourself through the opposite misery for the good of the person you love.

In all, I can't say i know what you should do here or have any really GOOD advice but i will say this... there are other girls out there.

I realize you really REALLY like this girl but some issues go beyond the realm of love. Having children is often one of them. Finally, agreeing on everything has a tendency to be a killer of a relationship. No one (no matter how much they argue) wants a relationship with no conflict in it. Such a situation will quickly bore the shit out of both of you and since a long term relationship pretty much becomes the never ending struggle to not finally tire of your mate, no conflict will become a chief weapon in that war.

Me and my girlfriend are complete opposites. I'm a rapper, she's a metal head. I'm fairly clean cut and neat, she's a messy, uber pierced, over tattoed freak. We argue, we fight and we love eachother. We're together not because we agree on everything all the time but because we've come to realize that everything we do is a necessary part of my (or her) life and that because we love each other, every choice is made considering her (or my) feelings.

I said we agree on everything morale wise except children.

when it comes to interests and likes, we like to stay at home and chill so that's a good thing, our only conflicting thing is music, whereas she's a metal head and I'm a rapper.

So, rofl @ your situation. Is your chick black?

that's cool homie. thanks for the post.

Looooooool.

That's fuckin awesome.

Nah she's white bro.

And i was just saying that because in the first post i thought you said something about it being important that you have the same interests or something.

how old are you? and dude, if you're just now thinking about dating this girl then that conflict in your opinions shouldn't even be a problem for now. whether or not yall want to have kids TOGETHER is something that will change with your relationship and something you can talk about wayyyyyyyy down the road :thumbup:

It was advised to her that she not get into a -deep- relationship unless it is with someone whose morales are not conflicting with her own.

She brought it up, so here we are.

just cram her baby gap with Spackle and tell her to shut the fuck up for 9 months

Dude your 17 stop thinking about marriage. I was the same as you at your age. Had some chick I thought I loved but na the sex was cloudin my brains. Have fun like everyones saying if it leads to it she'll change her mind on her own. If you can make it 4 months its a miracle worry about 1 month anniversarys before you worry about weddings.