Didn't read the responses yet.. but here's mine.

It all depends on the situation.

If you like the girl.. and that's as far as it goes.. then you should put your boys before her. But, if you really love her and see a future with her.. she should come way before them.

I tend to value my girlfriend Brittany alot moe now a'days then my crew. Its not like we dont chill and shit anymore but its just that be4 I hooked up wit her I was a real mess. I was always gettin arrested, in and out of jail, gettin drunk every minute of the day and just being a bum b/c I didnt give a fuk. Then after I got her she really changed my whole veiw on life. It got to a point were I wanted to be with her everyday and not even just to have sex but to just chill with her, watch a movie or t.v or something. Every time my boys would call me up about some type of drama i wouldnt take part b/c I knew it would hurt her if i got arrested and i didnt want to bring her no pain. My girl is my heart and thats 4real.....I love her so much and I dont ever want to hurt her or bring her pain. She does so much for me and shows me so much Love that noone has ever done for me in my life. Im only 18 but I can honestly say that she's wifey and I think I found my dream girl.....as corney as it sounds im speakin the truth and thats real.......1

Watch it...I'm 14, and they only free because I feel you and your mommy both repay me well....at my crib...lights dimmed....Marvin Gaye playing...it's like watching lesbian porno.

But anywho
I've had people that come and go in my life...They only there, when a real situation comes up, thats the real test on who your friends are. The people in my building, shit, I'm down for them, and I know its like that back. But, a woman does change who you can be. It can turn you grimey, it can turn you into a different person, so looking from your own perspective, it can seem like your friends are fucking you over. Though its not like this all the time. You know that if she your true love, that shes always down for you. Never let a female tie you up and change who you are, because if she truly loved you, then there'd be no need for change.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^WERD

but if u find the right bitch liek me u wont have to worry bout that shit she understands everything and knows when it is her time and when it aint
but i do agree with old buddy ur boys will be there all ways if they r true boys
im out
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o yeah nice thread topic dawg

bros.....

if the bitch would make u make a decision
SHE IS A BITCH... nothin else 2 it

I think I was like the 1st or 2nd person to reply to this thread and I said I'd pick my girl. I explained that I aint with this girl but I love her so much. I'd do anythin for this girl within reason. I'd definatly fight for her. I say her because I'm goin through some personal problems at the moment and she's the one who's tryin to get me through it. My boyz are'nt around no more. Everythin changed when we left school coz we've gone in different directions but this girl is still here for me....

My gurl gives, ...me the love my dawgs..couldnt give, ..

Or the female friends..i got...

So i must go with my girl..

My friends,...will remain, ...cuz they are real...

^^^werd.....i agree wit you

My girl over my bros ^ agree with the Edicius and Y not. My girl gives me love that no one else ever could

Yea I'm a senior in high school but i found my true love. My girl is always there for me and will always be there. Me and here have gone through more stuff in like 2 years than me and my bros ever have in the past 10 years. My boys say that they are gonna be there for me and then go off and dis me screw that. My babys my life.

I agree with the last three posts. Eventhough me and this girl arent together, she's still cared for me and kept my feet on the ground. My boys couldnt do that. She's my rock. I go to her with my problems coz I know she'll help me. I love her so much. I wish we were more than friends

with me it's who ever i made plans with first. Besides me and my niggaz are beyond that. We all chose our girls over each other cause we gonna stay niggaz regardless. We all looking ahead to the future with families and shit and that requires some sacifices and we all know what the mean and we don't take it personal. But the only rule is that you girl can't make you change you plans with your boys and vise versa. Cause, I love my girl but if I planned something with my niggaz then she'll just be left out. Believe me, over here everyone knows the deal. Holla.

My boy Kevin comes before any girl. We've been tight ever since we were 3. We even live 400 miles apart now and I talk to him more than I do my friends around here. As for my boys around here...depends on how serious I end up getting with this girl. As of right now, it's my boys. However, if things work out...she'll quickly take their place. The only one I'd put before her is Kevin because no matter what happens, rain or shine, we're always there for each other and have each others back when the time is needed. I've made a few trips back to STL to help him out...and he's made a few down here to help me out. You don't find friendship like that nowadays.

Bros B4 Hoes