Yes! :)

i would go fuck her best friend if you found out she fucked around, and then get her friend pregnant, and make her get an abortion


^ nevermind but it was just a suggestion

Why is Bruk only around when I freepost?

16, im graduating next year... People told me the first love is alot harder to get over than others. I didnt know until now. I just got done talking to her on the phone. I was about to do it, but I couldnt. I was about to fuckin explode. Damn, why is this shit so hard? I want it to work, but things arnt looking so good. I hope no one else has to go through somthing like this. Shit is fuckin hard, but I Love, Love... Im a romantic, I aint ganna lie... LOL

just be like "yo hoe ass bitch itz ova!" and then hang up the phone.:)

damn i didnt know i was older then bruk.... fuck it.... High dogg ull always have a place in ur heart for her no matter what, but it seems highly unlikly that u will ever see her again, and if u do it probably wont be the same, cuz thinngs change, i mean being friends wit a girl u like is hard and love is damn near impossible, but theres always hope. but my first instinct is to say to keep it goin but i realized that usually my first instict i wrong when it comes to girls.... so break it off stay friends, and like talk to other girls and get them to like u and shit and then see what happens...

long distance dont work....

..That shit just don't WORK!!!!!

love doesn't work

DAMNIT LONG DISTANCE DOES WORK

Just have to try REALLY REALLY hard to maintain

...I'm trying...wish me luck!

^^^^Good luck then

but, it hardly does work, i've been in a bunch, and they all were bad.

Man, y'all are some serious pessimists....yes, long-distance relationships do work, and if you ain't got the strength to thrive while you're apart, you certainly ain't gonna be able to handle a lifetime commitment to anybody, long distance or not. You make it to the rough times with each other, then you can do anything. My man and I were in a long distance relationship for a year when I was 16 and he was 20. It was rough, and you can't help but suspect foul play going on on the other side of the court, but it was really just paranoia kickin in. Now, almost seven years later, we're married and got 2 little girls together, and you know what? It kicks ass, and that year apart made our relationship unbreakable. Good luck to the two of you.

Pretty much, and Good Luck TR.


When you were 16 and he was 20? =/ That's a little big illegal.
But he has a little bit of a different situation probably. She lives in England, he lives in America. Having to go across a sea to merely be with your girlfriend would suck. It's unlikely he'll be able to move back to England any time soon. And a year of not seeing a person would be incredibly hard.

A year of not seeing someone IS hard, I don't think anyone's under the impression that it's easy, and any long-term relationship, marriage, what have you, takes alot of work. Anyone who believes it's easy is fooling themselves...that's why the divorce rate is what it is in this country...people are to damn lazy to work at their marriages, divorce becomes the easy way. And as far as our relationship being illegal, yeah, I guess it was, but now at 23 and 27, doesn't really matter now.

I never said I found it easy, as I know different. But trying to keep a relationship together from opposite sides of the world is to hard. It would be different if they were older, as they would probably be able to see each other more often, but at sixteen hope is little, if not none. The idea of getting back together is great...but they’ll never do it.
High Class, how long have you two been going out?

yeah, everybody told me we couldn't do it either...yes, the odds are absolutely against you, but if you want to make it work, you can...if you're really not ready for a commited relationship, which most aren't at 16 (which is absolutely fine), then it won't work. Just depends on the relationship itself, not distace.

Look man im in one right now. My girls in California im in Oklahoma (Because of the Military) Man Ive been away from her for 2 years now. Only times i get to see her is when i go on leave. Dawg its hard as fuck to make it work. All kinds of shit gets in the way. Sometimes i feel like it aint worth it no more. But i dont know. She makes it hard sometimes for me. Ill tell you one thing i noticed man, she doesnt try as much as she used to. She was so perfect in my eyes, now im not so sure. I just hope she pulls her head out of her ass and realizes what shes doin. The odds are against you. And suspisions will run wild. Yo man we've been together for 5 1/2 years and it seems like to her that that doesnt matter anymore. I mean the whole reason i came into the Military was for her and to get away from the bullshit and have a better life. I dont know man just thinking about this fucking pisses me off. But thats my personal experience. But dont let anyone tell you something wont work.

yo just do it the pimp way talk to more girls at the new place and just keep it cool wit her so when u see her damn son she gonna put it on u do it like me :)

Hold up...you said this girl was perfect..then why should distance come between you? if you do something you regret you'll be kicking yourself the rest of your life..you nmight lose a good friend..isn't there a way you can see her? ask her if you can be in an open relationship, where you can both see other people but you both turn a blind eye if the other fucks/gets fucked off someone else..that would work???

Well you see our relationship is somewhat confusing man...........Seeing other people is not an option with us. Its either us or not. And as for distance, distance is a bitch cause you start to lose the connection. And if im to ever find her wit someone else no lie i'd killem both. fuck that i aint goin have that!

Point blank it depends on the two. If there is trust total trust which is hard to come by and
You need a lot of patients. For me long distance relationships do not work. I was in one a year
Ago and hit went horrible. She didn’t trust me one bit which lead me to see other people.
Well anyways God Speed.
Oh yeah and don’t let the opinion of others be your last result. You should be man enough to
Make the last and final decision.

Laters

I agree with the Chemist

I didn't read all the posts.. as I don't feel like clicking through 4 pages.


I'm not going to get into my personal life, but I have had experience with long distance relationships. Basically, it puts any relationship to an extreme test. When you are with someone, you really don't have to do THAT much talking and conversing. You can go to movies, mall, or wherever, and since you are active, there really isn't a need to be talking at all times. This is what makes having a 'short distance' relationship so much easier. With your long distance relationship, you are going to have to talk to her for at least an hour or two a day. Not that many couples can have something to talk about for this amount of time continually.. which leads to boredom on both sides. Boredome in any relationship is a HUGE problem. This, along with the trust issues are what makes long distance relationships not work out most of the time.

The reason I stuck with my relationship is because I couldn't picture me being happier with someone else. So I'd say to stay with her if you think you have a serious future with her. However, if you can't trust her and get bored talking to her easily, do yourself a favor and break up now. Oh, and if you are a horny bastard, you might want to break up with her too, as you don't know when the next time is you'll be 'gettin some'


(that was way too long of a post from me.. :( )

it wont work.....trust me...i couldnt wait that long when i was young....but the funny part is she moved back....lol so yeah...then we got back together....it was really funny after she left...1 year later shes back....u never know they come back you know

^ That is very sound advice there (provided by the end)... Being so far away as my careet took me, caused most of the trouble that lead to my own break up. I had a wife and child, so it was much more difficult to just let go. In your situation, it's eaiser to let go, if needed. Good luck to you...

I had a long distance relationship, this is how I ended it,

I wrote her a letter, email, whatever, but letters work better.
And you tell them, how much you truly care for them, and that you are only breaking it off because you feel u are being selfish, hoarding her, so that she can't experience the world as a young woman should be free to do. Thats just how I did it...

man...long distance is one of the most frustrating things ever...It rarely ever works and you just need to keep talkin to her and go and see her whenever you can...

It's hard. very hard. been there. done that. Don't wanna do it again..

Good Luck Baby :laugh:

all i gotta say to tha fellaz is up ya lotion game if ya gonna get in a long distance relationship, i had one and i was the lotion king damnit, u know how some people say "i've never seen an empty can of them big ass vasaline joints" well i have and its a lonely place. but it didn't work when we got back 2gether cuz i had changed and she had changed and frankly i didn't like the new her and she obviously didn't like tha new me.When u are away from somebody u get use to not having them around, then when u get them around u smother them, and i don't give a fuck how much u love somebody, u can get tired of em quick.So i'll never knock another persons' relationship, i aint gon say don't do it, i'll simply say GOOD LUCK AND THA VICTORIA SECRET LOTION IS ON POINT.

they broke up