EXACTLY!!!!!!!

your going through hard times, no matter who you are, you want them to end and stop hurting you.... you can take the easy way out or take the hard road through

easy way out = death.. the hard road = struggling through the times..... and knowing that u cant cope with whats happening, and its going to get harder before it gets easier and will take alot longer than if u try killing urself, is 99% of the time going to drive u to do go through with killing urself.

no, but you can treasure them and smile about them when u think of the good times.

ok let me break sumthing down and ull see why i didnt really wanna say who the girl was, but she is a girl i had been with for years, she was everything to me, and when she died, she was pregnant withour baby...... and i still have the pics of our life and all the memories and they constantly put a smile on my face if i ever feel down, she still lives in me and i know she is watching over me wanting me to be happy.

But if you have been through that situation you must understand that people do not choose to keep on living and just want to be dead too...

(sorry about that btw)

No but they give you strength to think about.

but why???

that person might be dead, but u can play a big part in making them live on, memories and what they meant to you and the fact the love you had for them will allways be deep within u means, despite them being dead, they still live on.... people choose not to live on through the shit, because they are not strong enough to cope with it.. if they were strong enough, they wouldnt need to take their own life

I survive every suicide I try.. I kept this life of mine..
untill I walked outside..tripped and slip on the ice and died..
- me :(

This isn't always the case...

By personal experience to me it is.

But i understand people think in different ways.

suicide is extremely selfish and stupid but its not weak. I could never bring myself to take those pills or pull that trigger or w/e cuz that would be the end. All we have to fear is the unknown, well isnt the biggest unknown of all death? so i dont think its cowardly or weak, its not brave either, its just something some ppl feel they have to do, or they just cant see past it. the poem deadweight, i posted on here the day after my friend hung himself, a month ago, i dont think hes weak, i just think he was blinded. and im glad u got over it LE, good for u from learning from ur mistakes man and ur here now to help sum1 else so fair play.

But that's the choice you make...

Live on and cherish the memories or take your life because you do not want to live without that person

It's a choice, it's a personal decision and you cannot judge someone on that to define their personality or possible strength/weakness.

Limited Edition- change your name to stan ;)

:laugh:

But I agree with whoever said suicide is not weak even if you threaten suicide talk all this shit about you want to die few people actually do it and yes writing asuicide letter ad posting it on the internet IS weak behavior on the other hand. Suicide is a normal thing in our present times but posting it on the internet means one of two: a.) your an attention whore b.) your a bitch, The fact that you would take your time to act like your against suicide and get people to believe it by taking your time to make this thread just shows how bad u lost.