Point blank it depends on the two. If there is trust total trust which is hard to come by and
You need a lot of patients. For me long distance relationships do not work. I was in one a year
Ago and hit went horrible. She didn’t trust me one bit which lead me to see other people.
Well anyways God Speed.
Oh yeah and don’t let the opinion of others be your last result. You should be man enough to
Make the last and final decision.

Laters

I agree with the Chemist

I didn't read all the posts.. as I don't feel like clicking through 4 pages.


I'm not going to get into my personal life, but I have had experience with long distance relationships. Basically, it puts any relationship to an extreme test. When you are with someone, you really don't have to do THAT much talking and conversing. You can go to movies, mall, or wherever, and since you are active, there really isn't a need to be talking at all times. This is what makes having a 'short distance' relationship so much easier. With your long distance relationship, you are going to have to talk to her for at least an hour or two a day. Not that many couples can have something to talk about for this amount of time continually.. which leads to boredom on both sides. Boredome in any relationship is a HUGE problem. This, along with the trust issues are what makes long distance relationships not work out most of the time.

The reason I stuck with my relationship is because I couldn't picture me being happier with someone else. So I'd say to stay with her if you think you have a serious future with her. However, if you can't trust her and get bored talking to her easily, do yourself a favor and break up now. Oh, and if you are a horny bastard, you might want to break up with her too, as you don't know when the next time is you'll be 'gettin some'


(that was way too long of a post from me.. :( )

it wont work.....trust me...i couldnt wait that long when i was young....but the funny part is she moved back....lol so yeah...then we got back together....it was really funny after she left...1 year later shes back....u never know they come back you know

^ That is very sound advice there (provided by the end)... Being so far away as my careet took me, caused most of the trouble that lead to my own break up. I had a wife and child, so it was much more difficult to just let go. In your situation, it's eaiser to let go, if needed. Good luck to you...

I had a long distance relationship, this is how I ended it,

I wrote her a letter, email, whatever, but letters work better.
And you tell them, how much you truly care for them, and that you are only breaking it off because you feel u are being selfish, hoarding her, so that she can't experience the world as a young woman should be free to do. Thats just how I did it...

man...long distance is one of the most frustrating things ever...It rarely ever works and you just need to keep talkin to her and go and see her whenever you can...

It's hard. very hard. been there. done that. Don't wanna do it again..

Good Luck Baby :laugh:

all i gotta say to tha fellaz is up ya lotion game if ya gonna get in a long distance relationship, i had one and i was the lotion king damnit, u know how some people say "i've never seen an empty can of them big ass vasaline joints" well i have and its a lonely place. but it didn't work when we got back 2gether cuz i had changed and she had changed and frankly i didn't like the new her and she obviously didn't like tha new me.When u are away from somebody u get use to not having them around, then when u get them around u smother them, and i don't give a fuck how much u love somebody, u can get tired of em quick.So i'll never knock another persons' relationship, i aint gon say don't do it, i'll simply say GOOD LUCK AND THA VICTORIA SECRET LOTION IS ON POINT.

they broke up