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High Class 01-19-04 10:47 AM

Long Distance Relationship???
 
Im in one right now, cause I had to move later last year. And me and my girl are going through some really hard shit. But she is perfect, like personality and everything. I dont know what to do, or whats best for us. Does anyone have any experience on this, or any advice or thoughts on a long distance relationship. I want to stay with here, but were probably not going to see each other for a long while... Be serious on this, cause im not pulling any strings on everyone.

Harlem's Finest 01-19-04 10:52 AM

Lol Man... I've never had one... but know it don't work for sure...


Basically.. You're both gonna be gettin on peeps in your own towns/cities whateva...
But as far as I see it, if you both stay together despite that, it'd make shit stronger, rather than going behind backs etc...
I guess if you constantly talk on the phone/net or whateva and arrange trips etc... you'll be safe...
Think about it.. can you really go without.. esp. when your girl is 100's of miles away from you anyway... same for her...

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 10:53 AM

As Much As I Hate To Say....That Shit Never Works.

You'll End Up Talking To Someone At Your School That'll Remind You Of Her..And You'll Fuck Around With Her....Then Your Guilty Conscience Will Make You Tell Her...And Then..She Turns Around And Tells You She Found Someone Else Anywayz. Then You'll Just Agree On Being Friends.

Happened Between Me And My Ex Boyfriend...

Good Luck Though :)

G. Buttersworth 01-19-04 10:54 AM

^ agreed.


they always go sour.

High Class 01-19-04 10:57 AM

Yea, you guys make god points. I think she is hiding something from me. But im not sure, if she is. Im ganna kill the other person on the other side of the line. LOL . You think we should meet up after school is done with and all of that. Like put the relationship on hold or somthing. Cause I really love this girl, she is my first love. We have been through so much, and I have made so many sacrifices for her. Its like my mind is telling me it wont work, but my heart wont let me say those words. To break up and shit... Im just one confused person at the moment, sorry... LOL

Straight Ace 01-19-04 10:58 AM

Your still young..dont restrict yourself yet, & certainly not this way.

8-off 01-19-04 10:59 AM

yea find somebody else....and whats the point of dating someone who you never seen or never will see? what are you getting out of the relationship? talking isnt enough, and im pretty sure if somebody came up to her and asked if she has a man she's gonna look like a dumbass saying he live across the country

Harlem's Finest 01-19-04 11:01 AM

Man... I wish I lived in America... This sounds so much like an American stereotype thing.... All that Spring Break.. Road Trip.. Prom shit...

We get a few weeks off.. weekend camping at a beach maybe.. and a school disco with some 50yr old DJ playing Aga Doo songs whilst stoppin his wig from falling off....

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by High Class
Yea, you guys make god points. I think she is hiding something from me. But im not sure, if she is. Im ganna kill the other person on the other side of the line. LOL . You think we should meet up after school is done with and all of that. Like put the relationship on hold or somthing. Cause I really love this girl, she is my first love. We have been through so much, and I have made so many sacrifices for her. Its like my mind is telling me it wont work, but my heart wont let me say those words. To break up and shit... Im just one confused person at the moment, sorry... LOL




Just Go Ahead And Break It Off.

Who Knows...You Might Find Someone Way Better...You're Too Young To Be Waiting Until You Finish School. Don't You Know You Could Have Met Someone Way Better Than That By Then?

8-off 01-19-04 11:02 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by High Class
Yea, you guys make god points. I think she is hiding something from me. But im not sure, if she is. Im ganna kill the other person on the other side of the line. LOL . You think we should meet up after school is done with and all of that. Like put the relationship on hold or somthing. Cause I really love this girl, she is my first love. We have been through so much, and I have made so many sacrifices for her. Its like my mind is telling me it wont work, but my heart wont let me say those words. To break up and shit... Im just one confused person at the moment, sorry... LOL


if you love her run away...and make stops on major cities to lift off your rapping career, then hitchike with total strangers but dont worry you'll be safe...and before you know it you'll meet up with her again

well thats what i did anyway, well not really but it always works in the movies so go for it :thumbup:

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 11:03 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by 8-off
if you love her run away...and make stops on major cities to lift off your rapping career, then hitchike with total strangers but dont worry you'll be safe...and before you know it you'll meet up with her again

well thats what i did anyway, well not really but it always works in the movies so go for it :thumbup:



Lol. Azztro So Witty.

Straight Ace 01-19-04 11:04 AM

Exactly..though think about..you'll become inactive... :|

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Straight Ace
Exactly..though think about..you'll become inactive... :|



Well Think About It....You And Your Right Hand Will Be Best Friends...Since You're So Dedicated To Having A Long Distance Relationship.

No Sex For You.

High Class 01-19-04 11:07 AM

LOL, I will try and break it off. Im going to make sure its a good time. So it is easy on her and all, you know. Does anyone know anyone else who got through a long distance relationship? Thanks for all the advice and so fast. LOL . I really appriciate it, and I will try hard to make the right decision about this shit... Thanks

High Class 01-19-04 11:08 AM

Ohh and I dont wack off, being serious. I handle te blue balls every once in a while and go on my way, LOL... Another good point though... LOL

8-off 01-19-04 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by High Class
LOL, I will try and break it off. Im going to make sure its a good time. So it is easy on her and all, you know. Does anyone know anyone else who got through a long distance relationship? Thanks for all the advice and so fast. LOL . I really appriciate it, and I will try hard to make the right decision about this shit... Thanks



where does she live and where do you live?

Straight Ace 01-19-04 11:10 AM

..Better idea.
Keep it going..But just hook up with somethin inside your area..
Then maybe when you one day are in the area of ur g/f..
You get..yes..a free hug!
& all it takes is a poem from some poetry site with a pink layout.

High Class 01-19-04 11:17 AM

^ LOL ^

Its a little bit longer than people think. Both of our parents are Air Force, and we met each other in england like a year in 4 months ago. We hooked up, and I told her I was going to leave anyway. But we just couldnt let go of each other. It was like a drama movie when I had to watch her leave for vacation at the air port. Knowing I wouldnt see her for a long time. That was the first time I ever cried over a girl, and I never cried this bad befor. It was pathetic almost. But things change, and that is somthing I need to learne how to deal with... She lives in england, and im in North Carolina... ( She is american )

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by High Class
^ LOL ^

Its a little bit longer than people think. Both of our parents are Air Force, and we met each other in england like a year in 4 months ago. We hooked up, and I told her I was going to leave anyway. But we just couldnt let go of each other. It was like a drama movie when I had to watch her leave for vacation at the air port. Knowing I wouldnt see her for a long time. That was the first time I ever cried over a girl, and I never cried this bad befor. It was pathetic almost. But things change, and that is somthing I need to learne how to deal with... She lives in england, and im in North Carolina... ( She is american )




Awwwwww!!!

The Crying Part Is So Cute.

And Shes In England??

Break That Off Sweetie.

Straight Ace 01-19-04 11:19 AM

..Buy a boat cheap ass..


Does she talks with that accent?

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 11:20 AM

He Said Shes American You Silly.

Straight Ace 01-19-04 11:24 AM

So..she could've adapted.
..But then again who the fuck cud adapt to England..
So disregard my remark above Hotties post please.

& yea obviously..break it of man..
There's no hope for you..unless the beautifull tale u just told..continues..
..when u sleep.

self 01-19-04 11:37 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~HoTTie~
Well Think About It....You And Your Right Hand Will Be Best Friends...Since You're So Dedicated To Having A Long Distance Relationship.

No Sex For You.


This sounds like something familiar...

Anways, I live about 30 minutes away from my girl. We only get to see each other once a week. It sucks. We talk through the week of course, but not being able to see her sucks.

And what you said about putting the relationship on hiatus for a while won’t happen. Sorry, but it just doesn’t work like that. At least one of you will move on, stop feeling “that” way about the other.

Lokinator 01-19-04 11:50 AM

Better yet, give me her number =)

Blah Love is for the weak

self 01-19-04 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Loki
Better yet, give me her number =)

Blah Love is for the weak


And it's breaking me.

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 11:55 AM

Well Thats Cause You And Your Girl Are Destined To Be Together...

Not You And The Bus Girl.

Anywayz....Get On Aim :)

self 01-19-04 11:58 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~HoTTie~
Well Thats Cause You And Your Girl Are Destined To Be Together...

Not You And The Bus Girl.

Anywayz....Get On Aim :)


I'm at school. Which means no AIM.

I'll tell you if I see bus girl tonight. (Korra's her name by the way).

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 12:02 PM

Alright Then.

Maybe You And Korra Might Have A Love Connection.

self 01-19-04 12:06 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by ~HoTTie~
Alright Then.

Maybe You And Korra Might Have A Love Connection.


Exactly. I'm not going to avoid her or anything. I'm going to at least talk to her...I just still love Janey with all my heart. Last night we were talking and certain things just really got to me. All the memories...ahhh

Ok, but this is the bad part...

Janey is to young. She's 15 right now, I'm 17, meaning it's legal. But in 4 months I'll be 18...and she'll still be 15 for like 6 months for something. That's just driving me crazy.

Trapt Wit 01-19-04 12:07 PM

Love sucks....

...fuck it

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 12:13 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Bruklor
Exactly. I'm not going to avoid her or anything. I'm going to at least talk to her...I just still love Janey with all my heart. Last night we were talking and certain things just really got to me. All the memories...ahhh

Ok, but this is the bad part...

Janey is to young. She's 15 right now, I'm 17, meaning it's legal. But in 4 months I'll be 18...and she'll still be 15 for like 6 months for something. That's just driving me crazy.




Word.

Same Thing With Me And Jae.

Lolz.

KoNcEpT 01-19-04 12:19 PM

Word I Wish We Aint Live So Far Apart = /

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 12:26 PM

An Hour..? :-/

KoNcEpT 01-19-04 12:29 PM

Nah I Think It's More Than An Hour Prolly Bout 1 Hr 30 - 2Hrs
But Shit If I Know Lol. A Hr Is A Long Way Away Anyways For
Somebody Who Aint Got A Car. = /

*Edit* w00t 800 Posts

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 12:37 PM

Lolz Word.

But Guess Whose Going To StoneCrest Today!!!!

At 2.

Lokinator 01-19-04 12:38 PM

No One Cares

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 12:40 PM

Fucka Loki

High Class..I Forgot To Ask..How Old Are You And Your Girl?

Lokinator 01-19-04 12:57 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Loki
No One Cares


Was aimed at the entire thread =)

~HoTTie~ 01-19-04 01:02 PM

Liar Liar.

You're A Meanie Now.

You Used To Be My Friend :(

Lokinator 01-19-04 01:06 PM

Lol. .

Did i? =)

Quote:
But Guess Whose Going To StoneCrest Today!!!!


Errrm. . you?


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