I need advice soon...
 

Aight, here's the deal. This girl, we'll call her Alley, wants to go out, again. In the first semester we went out for less than a week, and then she dumped me cuz she still liked this guy, call him Jacob. So I was fine and then we went out again for a 2nd time. Well about 2 weeks later she said she saw me more as a brother than a boyfriend, so that was the end of that.

Now she wants to go out a third time, but I'm not sure if I want to go through all the ish again. People make fun of her, I defend her and all, but a lot of what they say is true. (dresses like a whore, etc...) Her best friends is someone I can't stand basically.

So basically, do I give her a third chance? I kinda like her, but I'm not sure if I want to deal with all of the probs she brings. She has a bad home life, which is one reason I'm still her friend so I can be there for her. I'm not in any classes with her either.

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i wouldnt...if she see u as a brother...but wanna get wit u...she sik fam...

lol nah not like that.. she likes hmi as a b/f agen..

but yo... really.. the worlds about taking chances.. if you still like her a lil then y not take that chance you know?? it really depends on how you feel.. like ex: you know my ex right.. the one that left me.. that biotch lol.. if she wanted to get back with me agen.. i wouldn't get back with her because i don't like her nemore and i know i could get better.. so if you still have som feelin then get with her.. if not then don't.. but really depends on ur heart man...

hahaha i was playin...mayb u could get sum tho...ya kno, 'sum cut'...den if she calls u brother or sum shit while u fuckin...then u hop out dat shit like its on fire n pretend like u dont kno ha' next time u c ha'

Nah, that was just her excuse. She still liked Jacob.

Haha, I'm not like that man. Sides, I think she lost her virginity already. Age 12 or some ish. I don't know. Her best friend likes me, but she is frickin psyco. Thinks I try to make life miserable.

wut tha fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk kkkkkkkkkkkkk?!?!?!?!?!?! age 12....she aint even hav pussy hairs yet...thas sum robert kelly shit fam...damn...she prolly thought she was gettin stabbed in her pussy if she got fuckd at age 12....damn damn

lol.... ^^^^^^^^^^

Well, her friend told me, but like I said her friend likes me so ya. Don't know if I believe it or not. She may be trying to sabotage her reputation to me.

I need some help people. I have 2 opinions, but I need a few more.

Okay okay, you "like" her but this can mean a lot of things. You can like someone without feeling the person is worth this shit you know. You gotta know how much you really like her but in love, you have to take risks every now and then. You have to put yourself in a vulnerable position so as to love and be loved. I just hope she isn't playing tricks on you 'cause you don't deserve that. But in your heart, you will have to see whether or not she is worth that risk...

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Hmm, very good point efecx. I don't know though, cuz now I am feeling like I should. She just doesnt have a good rep at school, but I'm starting to like her more. But now I am starting to like another chick too. She's in 8th grade (Im in 9th), so ya.

Well, I thought bout it, and the only reason I really wanted to go out with her was to hit it, and I hate being like that and guys who date girls for that, so I decided not to. Also I was gonna try and make my ex mad for goin out with her ex best friend.
But I talked to the girl in 8th, and turns out I really like her. I don't really care bout people and how they feel anymore so ya. We have a lot in common, and she's liked me for almost a year so you know she likes me. Goin on a date this Friday so I can see if we will work, prob is we are goin with her 2 best friends.

GD i aint been around in a minute to cary out my mod shit in this forum but yeah i think that you should just give her another chance because sometimes it takes some people a couple times to make them realize that they really like the person and what not... but yeah i dunno i been wit the same girl for like 8 months now and we broken up like 6 times but it lasts less then 2 hours ... what was your name before this one?

Personify-Aristotle-Px-Architect-Golden Dayz

oh i c....

i remember you now

She sounds confused, but you should go ahead and go out with her again, but don't move fast. It's something about you she likes for her to ask a third time to go out. And even though she has a bad home, she needs comfort which could be another reason why she just want to go on a date. You don't need to be cool with her friend. If her friend is really feeling you, then she'd do anything to keep you from dating 'ol girl. So i say go ahead and go. People talking bout her shouldn't make you not want to talk to her. Outside influences ruin what could be a good thing. Just consider you and her, fuck everybody else, basically.

I don't know if anyone cares, but here's an update on this situation. Alley stopped talking to me when I told her friend that I would meet her at the dance, so I think that her friend was just trying to embarass me. The girl in 8th grade, now 9th, is still my girlfriend. Been going out and it's been 2 months, and I couldn't be happier. Thanks for everyone's advice and help.

whats that saying... there is some saying about asking for it and being a dummy for the third time... exnay i say nay to this ya know what to say.. werd she is a trip homie.. stay low and stay away.. go find yourself a good looking but nice girl... werd...i know this is old werd