Internet Relationships
 

Do you think two people can actually gain love over the internet?

Whatever your opinion is, please explain.

You know Socrates, everytime i begin to think you are just a cocky bastard who wants to gloat in every thread, and do little else, you come wit some interesting ass question that show you actually think about some deep shit. Respect. By the way, that's no beef, just real talk, and big ups.

-CJ-

yeah u can luv sum1 ova tha net, my homie did n they he met her n shit, werd

It's possible. Now if you all meet, then it could be a different story. A lot of people flirt on the net cuz they don't expect to meet them. I have bout 5 girls that want to meet me and tell me they love me. I'm a E-pimp :)

It can certainly happen, I will edit with more details when I get back in 3 days

it could definitely happen but that shit isnt for me.....to each their own.....seems kind of strange in too many ways.....really you dont even know for a fact who youre talking to online.....could be some old dude wit pantyhose on his dome! think about that shit for a hot second!

Def happen. I know a dude that got married after meeting a chick and dating her for 2 years after they met online. Meeting a chick online you get to see the real her - same chick (in NJ/Staten Island anyway - where chicks think they're princesses) would try to play the hard rock and not talk to you if you met her in person. She's got no one to impress on the net. BUT - a relationship started on the internet is a lot different tha nan "Internet Relationship". The shit that Cali and Q have is an internet relationship.

^lol @ cali & Q

Love is alot deeper then most see it,You dont REALLY love someone cause there hot..its emotions and fate.

i met a few girls off the net. but we spoke while on cam so i knew what i was getting into. but it can happen. the girls I met turned out to be real good friends. and we are still cool to this day. a few have came to spend the weekend with me. strictly platonic though. cuz i have a girlfriend. i just find it easier to get along with women than men. niggaz get on my nerves. most dudes are immature as fuck

yea you can love someone ova da internet

Internet relationships a rediculous period.

LOL @ People saying it can happen

know why people ''fall in love'' over the net, because they are mindless Virgins who never been in luv..........how can u fall in luv with font on ah screen?!?!

shit nething iz possible rite? so yea i guess it can happen. i cant think of a reason it wouldnt. i mean yea...9 times outta 10 aint shit gone happen cuz u talkin ta sumbody who lives clear across da country n shit. but still...shit happens so i think itz completely possible.

gyeah anythings possible, but enless your completely desparate you aint travelin across the country to see some girl... and love takes a hella long time, why the hell you wanna be sittin in a chair talkin to a girl for days when you can go out and do some shit... e-love just aint for everybody... i prefer talkin to girls i know online, like girls from school cuz it helps break the ice if you dont really talk wit 'em at school much... and u aint gotta travel... msn has started quite a few of my real relationships... so i think thats more believable.

Ok Ok look, no, you can't gain love for someone talking to them over the internet, like them a lot yes, then when you see them in real life, then yes you can gain love.. my opinion

You can love someone over the internet, but thats only because of their personailty. Not their looks. But love is a strange thing so, it depends on the two individuals involved.

Net relations,i think are fun while ur on da net. I feel they should only be fun tho,not tookin serious. But ay dats my opinion. But.......if 2 people take em serious then ay...u'll neva know what can happen. I just don't think they should be taken serious.

werd @ what I hi-lighted...true, true, oh so very truemy friend...

definitely possible... i was cool with this chick on-line maybe 8 years ago... she told her cuz about me, who happened to live in FL at the time ... we started chatting back and forth... she moved to NY...we started dating... shyt popped off ...ended up having 2 kids together and been married for 5&1/2 years (plus she already had a seed...that's my lil mini-me!!!)...was it expected...hell nah!!! did it happen?...yes it did.... there are no limits to how you find the person that's right for you

The internet thing---sure it can happen. It happened to me, and I was the biggest skeptic to existence. It seemed to be happenstance, but a little push on my part named it FATE. I like to call it bliss. I'm young, and I feel so in love. Luckily for me, he's not half way across the country, only a few hours away. I feel as though long distance relationships are superficial and painstaking but love on the line---ANYTHING'S Possible---

--ciao--

Already gave my two cents about this but I wanted to drop some more. I'm not talking about some puppy love or whatever but about a genuine friendship/romance that grew via the internet.

Internet relationships...hmmm, it's a tricky issue. You have to be quite careful in fact because there are treacherous persons out there who will put on a mask and escape in their own make-believe world. After a few times, you figure that out soon actually. But I do believe it can happen. On the internet it is sometimes easier to share things with each other, there are less presuppositions in my opinion. It can be a success or a failure just like a relationship in real life. The only danger with internet romance is falling for someone who's on the other side of the country or maybe even on another continent.

It can certainly happen...whether it lasts or not...it's like a normal relationship: you never know

2 me hell nah & i say diz cuz i can't c it how sumbody u hardly eva know from tha inside 2 tha outer part of dem u can really say u falling in luv wit dem it'z krazy in my opinion

EDIT: nm....... lmao........... betta not create beef. nah mean?

I never did it before.But its def possible.Alot less shallow then real ife
But so many people create characters on the net.Shits too much of a risk.
You can be in love with a nigga named rick callin himself "rachel".

nothin', shit would have caused more beef. :cool: But yea, this type of shit is possible, but risky like deph said. be nasty if that shit happened. lmao

^lol of course you won't mind, but the dude who shit was about would :shoot:

lol aiight, don't spread shit around then :shoot:

word done. Black wallllllllll streettttttttt, :cool: Game, yo :shoot:

i dont think you can....each person can neglect to tell the other things that are vital for a real relationship to function

^ True.

I don't know. I think it could work if both people are being real with each other. Like, when you go into a chat room and every girl says they're 5'5, 110, brown hair, brown eyes, and a cheerleader.. that's all bullshit. With people like it'll never work, but if both people actually give a damn then yeah, I don't see why it couldn't work.

well..of coarse two people can fall in love over the net...Love isnt hard to find...people overrate it like you shouldnt fall in love if u've only been with a person for 2 months..its ridiculas..because you and only you really know how you feel..you yourself only knows what love means to you and when you feel it...but to answer the question..yes it can happen...but the problem is...its becoming a fad now day on the internet...and you gotta be careful of who you talk to on the internet because sometimes they arent what they say....
and another thing is..its cool to talk to someone and eventually or start planning on meeting them to start a relationship...but its not cool to have a relationship(serious)long distance...when you havent even seen eachother face to face .....its real dumb for people to be in a serious relationship with someone they dont see at all....and to actually be faithful..that shit is stupid....i hate when people are like "yeah we've been going together for like 2 years now..its our anniversary"..and they still havent met..that shit is stupid and idiotic and very dumb..if you dont plan on meeting that person from jump..then dont do it..cuz its gay.