Devestated..
 

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Today i cried for the first time in 5 years, a friend of mine, who i could say anything to, got runover by a car, then a truck and another car. im truly devestated. She was just 14 and was rushing home as she was late and didnt look at the road, she had a full life ahead of her, now will never experience some great things, i cant imagine how her parents feel.

If there was a god, this wouldnt have happened....

just had to get it of my chest.

that shit is fucked yo

i read ya OM, i was feelin it

good way to express ya self......:thumbup:

You can't say that.... :nono: . Everything happen for a reason. I feel ya though. People cry, so what! I know how you feel though. Write it out, and try to keep a positive head.

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people say everything has a reason, she was a 14 year old innocent good friend. She didnt deserve it.

yea fam stay up man... like homey said man everything happens for a reason...so nah mean...cant switch the desicion back now..

R.I.P. 2 her. werd

Sorry man, but it was just her time. There is a God, but why he does things is a mystery. Don't think God did this to hurt you, pray to him and ask. He will answer you, you may not reconize it at first, but he will answer.

*moment of silence*

I think she lived? I dunno...She still livin daubs?

nope, sorry i didnt make it clear. The police said she died instantly after the first car hit her.

Yeah but like everybody else sayin, i know how u feel with sayin that God wouldnt do this and thats a natural reaction to something horrible like this, but God didnt WANT her to die or WANT to hurt you.. he didnt do it "on purpose", things happen. we were created by him with brains and able to make mistakes and like i said. things happen. stay up fam. 1

Traffic's a bitch.

But seriously, that sucks. That sucks for the driver too. If she was "rushing" home as you put it, she probably wasn't paying attention or something, cause now the driver is gonna take like, 5 years in prison for that.

Whatever, RIP to her.

Fuck five years in prison shes gonna get a lifetime of living with that.

I think you're wrong. If everything happens for a reason, as you guys put it, then God wants him to feel pain.. and hopefully build off of it or something.

You can't say God didn't want to hurt him. If it was just supposed to happen, then what? is God upstairs in heaven crying over it? I never read anything like that in the Bible..

I'm Sorry to hear this man. when did you hear about it? on a lighter note she is with the lord. but yea i'll say a prayer for ya
rest in peace to your friend and i hope that you can stay strong during this

If I were to run into traffic and get hit, and it was my fucking fault, is it really fair that the driver have his life going to the trash too?

Put yourself in the driver's shoes.

real sorry bout ur loss man...my condolences...RIP

im trying, i normally go in at around 10:30 on fridays but it was bad weather, so i went in 15 mins earlier....if i went home at my normal time, maybe i could have shouted and saved her, i feel kinda guilty.

My girlfriend rang this morning to tell me, she was a good friend of mine but her best friend. she cant stop crying too.

Thers an investigation to see whos fault it is at thew moment, i feel bad for the driver(s) too.

Mimesis:

No thats what im sayin tho its not the drivers fault but he/she having to live with that the rest of his/her life is WAAAY worse than five years in prison. thats all i was sayin.

yes i understand that, thats why its even worse for the drivers if it was her fault. i just wish shed have got home late instead.

Yeah i know.. maybe that came out wrong.... what i meant was in situations like this its a mistake to think that God "let" something like this happen. we are all born with brains that make mistakes and altho he is all-powerful i dont believe that its in the Bible that he actually CONTROLS our every action.. but then again im not the most educated person in the world on the Bible.... times like these are just really hard to explain and understand.

yeah i know my bad fam i was talkin to mimesis i forgot to quote him and a bunch of people posted.

Oh, ok. I misinterpreted what you said.

My bad..

But Daubs, don't blame yourself dawg. For real.

Damn Daubs, that's really fuckin' shitty man. And i know that you feelin' like that, but she in Zion now, a better place, so you should really be happy that she got outta this shitty Babylonian Machine that we refer to as the planet Earth. Condolensces my brethren, just look at it like she in a better place then she woulda been in. Much Respect.

-CJ-

i understand, but a lot of things could have stopped her dieng, if it wasnt raining bad, she didnt watch my football match, i rang her later and other stuff.

thanks for not hating, i appreciate all the love to her.

Yeah, it aint nobodys fault tho cuz nobody knew this was going to happen, dont blame yourself. But i know how youre feeling so my condolences once again fam.

im sorry about this....death is a hard thing to deal with....and part of dealing with it is asking if there is truly a god...everyone does it in a time of loss....but the answer to your questioning is that yes...there is a god...and he did it for a reason...dont blame yourself...its definitely not your fault at all....its nobodys fault....it just happened...stay up...

Yea, you can't blame yourself daubs. You had nothing to do with it. Things happen. It was just her time to go.





^But yea, I feel sorry for the driver too. If it was her fault, I highly doubt that the driver would get any time. But the driver(s) is sure as hell going to haf'to live with the fact that they took someone's life, and couldn't do nothing about it!

ma try and get some sleep now, thanks for the love to her agian...
RIP Lauren.

please dont bring that shit here...seriosely, if you wanna beef with me make a thread in beef forum, dont post back here please.

Sorry for the lost...just keep going and everything will work out in the end



This is wrong...everything happens for a reason, this may hit you hard now but later in life god will give back to you what he took away in the past...god took her for a reason, maybe something worse would of happened to her later in life...dying isnt a bad thing, shes in a better place and doesnt have to worry about problems on earth nomore...

peace

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Sorry to hear that fam...it jus makes you realise how unpredictable life can be...my thoughts go wit her and her family jus stay strong for them...it's all ya can do at this time

yes i feel ya, but we are campaigning to get a bridge built as it is like a sorta motorway so it could save more lives...

Yo this worlds fucked up........thats what you have to realize.......because she is in a better place now.....a way better place.......this worlds currupt with bad people......and if she was a good person.......(i get tha feeling she is)......then she wit her family where she should be.........and she wit you you just dont know it......she could be right beside you right now.......and youll see her again one day....whenever that may be.....just keep dat in mind.........oh and i feel you on that parent thing.......its just horrorable
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and in the words of Tupac "Keep Ya Head Up"

Don't blame yourself man. Just chill. Think about things logically.

With every choice you make, a whole different future that was possible gets eliminated. But not just you, that happens to everybody. So every choice made by you, her, the driver, and even other people caused what happened to happen. Shit wasn't solely your fault.

With that said, you should use this basically as a lesson. Think about the choices you make because they destroy futures, just as the choices you made in the past made the present. If you beat yourself up about this whole thing and get hung up on it, your whole mentality will change. And thats a choice you made that could change your life. You might end up some druggo goth, instead of something more.

I kind of went off on a confusing tangent. But what i'm basically trying to say is chill.

anyway... You and the cats involved got my condolences.

R.I.P. but God does everything for a reason.

Damn kid =(

BUT she must have had a Higher Purpose...or God wouldnt have taken her.

damn that goes to show how gay lif is. A car then a truck hen another care u gotta admit daubs within that cryin dont u just wanna laff?

R.I.P to her, some fucked up shit but she'll live on in the hearts of the ones that loved her. She's in a better place now, watching over you.