Breaking up with ya Girl
 

How many guys find it hard? I just had to, and I guess I'm a pansy cuz I was nervous as hell. It's only my 2nd time, so ya. But she didn't deserve to be hurt, and now she's crying. It hurt me too, but I'm glad I did it.

yeah i used to not care about dumping ym boys cuz none of them were serious, but then i started seeing a guy n we were goin with each other for more than a year and a half, n i had to break up wit him. Hurt me and him like hell but it had to be done cuz i didnt feel the same way bout him anymore. But i seriously havent had a proper relationship since that, jus lil stupid meaningless ones! :(

I know what you mean.

My whole world just came crashing down on me and I don't think I will ever be the same. I need some time alone so I can cry and try and get my world back the way it was about 3 months and 2 weeks ago.

That's her away message. What have I done?

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Lmao at your sig. You say your beating him, yet he got a 5-0 KO.

I never dated for a long time and I got bored quite easily but dumping can be a tricky thing when you actually care a lot about the person. Twice I felt oh so bad because I just liked the dudes more as friends than lovers ya know so I didn't want to lose them. Sometimes it had just died out and didn't cause too much pain to either of us.

Breaking up is never fun I guess when you really care about the person...but trust me, it was the right thing to do.

lol..naw it aint hard for me cus first you get nucci then you leave :)

i kno how u feel dog, i've been goin out w/ the same gurl for a year and a half, i completely changed my life around for this gurl, i stopped chillin w/ my friends, gave her 100% attention, did nothing but love her... but man im a sensitive cat ferreal, wen i say love i mean love... aint nothin stronger than that, and this gurl just keeps doin shyt to hurt me, lying, just a rack of small shyt that really gets me... and she loves me more than anything i know this... and she wants to stay together, but i just cant do it n e more... fereal i must b a fool, ive completely changed who i am for her, and now is the day im realizing it falls apart, and then you have nobody, and realize what a chump you are for changing for sum1 else, then wen u dont have that person, you are a changed man 4 nothing... i hope i can go back to doing me... cuz i just dont feel rite anymore.... shyt man im disguested by how life works sometimes...

Why'd you break up if you dont mind me asking?...But yeah it is hard if you break up with someone that you truely cared about...

^cuz she makes me worry about her constantly, and wen she tells me she's going out w/ her friend or whatever, i have trouble beleiveing her cuz she's lied in tha past.... and i aint gonna sit around gettin an ulcer wondering what tha fuck she's doing... i mean, gurl is my life... and tahts not healthy... fuck it yo im tryin to get my mind off of this shyt n its all i can think of

I just don't like her like that anymore.

Actually i was talkin to Rev...But i read yours anyways...lol...its cool...

i go out wit them like for 5 months and then get bored.....lol...most of them dont want to have sex so forgetem and i just dumpem but the last one i ahd i fucked her and she had a baby.....lol.....so she lives with her parents still and i dont see her nemore but i got another bitch rite now thats on vacation and its been 4 months wit her........so........

ive been broken up wit (never been the breaker-upper)........ i unno, even wen i see a relationship goin down the tube with any girls ive ever been wit i just dont got the heart i guess to do it and admit wen its at its end..... theres one gurl i always been stuck on and weve gone out like 3 times...... each time like 3-4 months, and she always breakin up wit me after that cuz she doesnt like to be tied down or sum shit...... i unno y the fuck she does that shit to me but i go back to her anyways.... shes cheated on me.... Ive cheated on her (but shh on the second one cuz shes never found that out) shes cheated on her bfs with me.... kinda sounds ho-ish wen i describe it like that, but all that shit only happened once.... and its been over the span of like 2 years that weve gone out (1 year of us actually bein a couple)

werd, we aint together anymore, and i havent really seen her that much since she went to a different school....... that shit killed me, cuz she was gonna go to the same school as me but than she got like a scholarship to this private school (yea shes smart) and u cant really expect her to turn it down wen the school is like the same price for the tuition of college and she got a "scholarship" to go there.... its been like a year or maybe alil more since last time i been wit her.... so that shits pretty much over, lmao, but it looks bad for me wen i say ive never broke up wit someone, just been broken up wit :(

It's just the first shock you know but you did the right thing. Leading her on would have hurt her even more in the end.

date ppl older then u they take it well lol

I don't have the problem of breaking up with a "girl". But, I imagine breaking up with anyone is tough to do...I was in this crazy ass relationship last year that had our breakup leaving me with flat tires and all that crazy shyt


relationships can turn real ugly real fast

damn that is scary!!^^^ :(

but yeah, me and my ex were goin real well 4 so long, it was the real type love that i got butterflies with n all, n admitting that i loved him but wasnt in love with him anymore, was the hardest thing i ever had to admit. lol but we still see each other n talk to each other but we never mention our time together which is weird cuz ya can go from being so close to sum1, wit no secrets to jus sorta forgetting about it real fast. But my family were more upset by the breakup than i was lol, they loved him! :love:

^^^^^^ my exes parents always hated me........ i have no clue y either.... its not like i was some shady kid thats gonna be a bad influence, lol, if anythin she was a bad influence on me......... lmao@Tha Q........ thats love tho man...... wen they take the time to go out and do that shit...... its scary.... but i dont know shit that shows that that person loved u more......

Well cudn't they have shown me for cheaper...I had to call my father and we have to replace all 4 of my tires...funny things is, the guys at the car shop didn't even have to ask, they were jus like "Ahh, girl slashed ya tires huh"

I was like "Yup" and jus hung my head in shame

All of my ex's parents love me. They come up to me at walmart and say hey. It's weird.

HAHHAHAHAH LMAO....... word, atleast u didnt get a brick through ur windshield

^^^^i think that wudda been next

crazy ass mofos

and then the weird thing is, a few months later, they call like "lets get together"...shits strange cuz for a second, I actually considered it...then I thought about it and was like "HELL NAW U FUCKED MY LIFE UP!"


and that was that!

why do only my exes parents hate me???? i think its cuz she was talkin about how much she cries after SHE breaks up wit ME so the parents prolly think i hurt her or sum shit.... meh, i never even talk to the parents that much..... cuz usually people come over to my house... i never go to other peoples houses..... it sucks gettin freeloaded on :(

Ya, they break up with you, then all of a sudden they go, "Lets go back out". One girl said she didn't want to even be my friend, I was like, ok. Whatever. Peace. Then 3 months later her friend tells me she wants to go back out so bad. Crazy bitch.

I actually think it's the sex that make people reconsider shit after a break up


but, u know what I say, there's a REASON we broke up so let's keep it that way.

word....... i remember this one guy was talkin about how he got into this huge ass fight with his wife and shit and shit and they were throwin shit at each other, and he left to go to the bar, and than later she called and was like "im makin hamburgers for dinner" and he was like "yea, ill be over in 20 minutes" i was laughin so hard......

actually last night i had to break up wit mah girl...i loved her an for me to say that is sayin suttin cause usally i get in get off an get out...but i found out she was flirtin around an shit an i think she feelin someone else i know she love me to but i jus said i cant fight with you anymore its not healthy an shit...an she was like please tell me we gonna go back to our friendship an shit i was like nah you showed yo tru colors i tried i rele did but fuck it i guess it hurts but life goes on....

All we did was make out. :/

^^it's the sex man...im tellin u


if sex wasn't involved, people wouldn't act so damn crazy

dey get sprung

I'm glad I'm still a virgin then. It hasn't become a factor yet.

u only make out??????????? youngin......... i still :love: u tho

Blah, I was spose to go to that one chicks house once. She said if we got any alone time, ya know.

lmao at makin out...i never make out bitches lips be on to much shit these days...

yo...yall niggas must be 14 years old

who says making out except middle schoolers?


ugh

fine.......... we were kickin it......... happy?

YES! :laugh: :hump: