Ok...my relationship question...How do you find "THE ONE"?
 

seriously


How do you find the person who is the love of your life, if you believe that sorta thing?


How do you know when you've found that person?


How

How

How

just go online n find them, thas how i found Buck.Marley :love:

:cool: werd

u really dont know. if uve been in love before u'll recognise the 'symptons' of love, but for various reasons it may not work out. so at the end of the day its just a risk thing. u take that risk and hope those feelings never go away.

when she doesnt mind the masking tape and dark alley ways :evilgrin:

^^^^lol hell yea
.........believe me u'll know...u'll get da gut instinct ya know wat i mean

There's no 'How'. You just got to feel it. I found karen the love of my life by what do we have in common. I made the first move asking her "Are you fond of poetry?"..Then boom bam clickty clank piggy bank lol we've been together for 8 months going for that One-Year in Two-Weeks. You just got to feel it and find what do you two have in common, but most likely how she or he acts towards you (includes personality) and how he/she act's towards her friends. The girls I've went out with in the back of the days they Like to be real when your alone with them but when it comes to friends they change, but Not Karen she never changes that's what I like about her...Ditto. O_o

well...


interesting...


it's funny tho...most of the time when I've entered in relationships, I wasn't looking or it just happened. I'm usually busy tryna get my --ish together and it just happens. I'm real skeptical though. But, when I do get in a relationship or friendship, I give my all to that person. That's what allows you to get hurt though.

yeah, it seems to me that when it happens you wont be asking and you'll just know no doubt... i dont know whether its just love or "the one" or what but i've had that feeling with one girl ive been with.... "been with" as in a relationship, not slept with...

Ez..........

Fuck everythin that you want, and if its good...you holla back for more the next day...and if she's cool to talk too after or before y'all fuck, then theres a good chance shes ''THE ONE'' as you put it.

You don't. They find you.

Shut up...I meant to put everyone can answer this but metafo


neway


Why is it all soooooooo complicated?

arggggggggg

But, isn't that a paradox? If everyone adopts that philosophy, won't everyone be sitting around waiting for something that'll never happen?

for real tho, the relationship thread is kind of about the type of thing Q is talkin about or somthin, yeah.

but Q no disrespect 'cause you my ''niggar'' but if you wasnt gay you wouldnt be askin yourself about ''the one''...thats the kind of thing bitches be talkin about, yo :shoot:

Naaah, you was just hopin that I'd be like ''Q I'M THE ONE, GET AT ME BIG BOY''

And you's mad 'cause I dont want youuuuuuuu

Jokes, man.

Exactly. Thus, is there really a true love for everyone?

Don't try to play me out son...Guy, STR8 and GAY, think about and talk about these things. I just got balls big enough to ADMIT that I think about them. So, fuck what you heard. Oh, and another thing, I'm bout tired of you tryna clown on me on the sneak-tip in every thread. You can chill wit dat. If you ain't got something intelligible to add, keep ya fat mouth shut.


nuff said.

STFU please.



You're not making sense. The first message you typed was nonsense, and every subsequent response followed suit.

I don't know. But, I'm sure there is someone out there to love.



maybe


??

LOL ^
Me n Col-B bout to have the first gay online marriage an shit, we was thinkin of adoptin a baby....but Ysdat was like ''naaah, Im happy with my momma'' so that plan got fucked up

o the real, dont spend your time waiting for "the one" sometimes searching for it ansd tryna force "the one" causes you to mis the actual "one".
Just live life, it may not be time for you to be finding "the one", the one ussually brings restrictions in your life. So live life up, instead of worrying about the one.

haaaa...tru tru..first real piece of advice given in this thread...

I guess a person can overanalyze situations.


real talk

WHAT WHAT WHAT?! hahaha...

see? this what I'm talkin about, If you wasnt gay, you wouldnt have got so touchy about what I said

chill, son....I said NO DISRESPECT

What the fuck are us str8 ''guys'' suppose to call the people who like men?

IF YOU ADMIT YOUR GAY, WHY GET EMOTIONAL WHEN PEOPLE CALL YOU GAY?

Damn, I was just fuckin with you, now I'm not....Just because you like the dick does not mean you gotta act like a girl, son.

I know gay fellas who are more of a man than 90% of people on here, so why you gotta be diffrent and get offended by dumb ass jokes?

Matter fact, scratch the last thing I said, It wasnt even a joke that you got offended by, I was bein serious wit it, my point was that GAY fellas are more in touch with there femanin side, hence them being gay, but yeah they in touch wit they femanin side n shit, so they look into things alot deeper than str8 guys 'cause we all ''bone heads'' apparently.

Can you read, or are you just a fucking moron? Nowhere did I say I was upset that someone called me gay. I said, you need to chill with trying to play me out and clown on me when I'm being serious. I know damn well that thinking about Love and relationships isn't just a "GAY GUY" thing. So, don't even try to play me out kid. Furthermore, I'm not getting upset. I'm just irritated at dumb ass douche bags who have nothing intelligent to add when someone is trying to be serious in a discussion. You've clearly shown that you have NOTHING to add, so STFU please. Acting like a girl? lol...I'm just gonna pretend that you can't help your stupidity.


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Yea...last time I checked, that wasn't a crime. You're makin it out like str8 guys don't talk about shit like this...And, I KNOW FOR A FACT that's bull shit son. WHat da fuck u think, that I don't know any str8 guys? That's all the fuck they talk about in private. Girls...Relationships..>Fuckin..Sports..Money...Love...Baby Mommas...Don't be mad at me cuz I'm in touch with my "sensitive" side...

fucker

well, i hope what i said doesnt mean shes "the one" cuz if so then i'm SOL :(

werd, MeTaFo' u should come up here in canada, gay marrage iz legall here :hump:

but yeah Q, sumtimes u could think that sum1 iz "tha 1" n then sumthin happens that makes u n them go different ways or w/e, but if u end up commin back 2 eachutha then maybe theres a betta chance of it bein "tha 1" u know :cool: werd

^^Iono...I jus wonder about stuff like this...Not that I sit around all day waiting for the love of my life. But, occasionally it does cross my mind, like today. So, I wanted to get different perspectives on what people thought about it.

Love is like rummaging through a pile of junk. Eventually, you find something you "love".


lol

sorry

Can you stop with the gayness please? It's not becoming of you Colby. lol


But yea...I feel what you're saying.

oh, i'll let u feel mo then just wut im saying :hump:

lol, aight i'll stop now :cool: werd

I prefer not to think about a man loving another man in the way you describe, I percieve that to be impossible and if it is possible, please dont speak about it around me, k

peace

yeah Q everybody thinks about this stuff sometimes....
but the thing is, you wont "think" that u are "in love" with somebody when you are, you will absolutely know it, so dont even think about it now.... i know it sounds weird, but you will have no doubt, and if u havent ever experienced it before, it is weird

See...that makes u a closet case...Where in the title did I say man 2 man?


Aren't u str8? So, why wouldn't your mind immediately go to women?


:nono:

Why, thank you.




lol

:thumbup:

Because you made the thread, and you're gay, so I thought you were talkin about man to man...thats what gay men usually do =/.

nah...I've been in love before; I believe most people have. But, lots of people we love aren't "the one". So, what's the difference is my question? All relationships start off rosy, then go downhill from there until you eventually break it off. So, what makes "the one" so much different from all the others. And, how do you know when you've found that person. Iono...you hear people saying they've experience "love at first sight". I dunno if that's possible or not.

Don't you have something else to do?



*marvels at the small minds*

No...I dont have anything else to do because I have no life.

When your chest gets warm and you have to exhale whenever you think about the person. :(

I love you Compose.

yeah, i honestly think thats possible... thats kind of what happened with me and that girl, but as you said, being "in love" and "the one" are 2 different things... at least hopefully for me, or im shit out of luck :)