Girlfriends/Boyfriends
 

What's the difference between a friend and a girlfriend/boyfriend? I never really understood how any of it works. Is it how you behave around them? Is it just the title? If it's the sexual input isn't the term "friends with benefits" completly retarded? I'm assuming it's similar to giving someone the title best friend, only on a more intimate level. I'm guessing the rules of a relationship need to be there or the line between friend and lover isn't even there. Everyone's take?

there are no rules. man, This question is so simple my deep mind cant even fathom and answer.

But there are girls who don't have sex with or kiss their man. Although, they hug and treat other men like they treat their boyfriend. And sometimes the girl will completly confide in their friend thats a man, but won't tell their boyfriend everything. So.... huh?

your talking about a bitch. dont even take any assumtions in life based on a bitches actions.

If a girls gone be a female,then she gone be true to you.

what you described as a bitch, and only a punk would label her his girl.

Rofl owned @ me (dont call her a bitch, bitch) :( I'll IM you to be cool

Im me?
that would mean i would have to be online, I signed off due to valor being pissed cause I didnt show in a crew battle for RB.
I hade court today, and tomorrow and Im sorting gigs. i have no time for a RB battle

Stop being a scared wnwigga and get on aim so I can bitch and moan about my problems.

man, I have my own problems.

Im going to court tomorrow on:

theift x car
theift x shop
removing pink sticker four times (pink sticker is stuck to cars that are classed as unsafe and cant be driven on roads)
and assaulting an officer.

you think im in th emood to hear you complain about your countrys lifestyle and hip hip wackness that is teaching youth that guns,murder,gangs colors, drugs, drinking fucking hoes, and in some cases scitzophrenic canablism is cool?

word @ my typo.

hip hip ..wtf?!

Well, yeah it is :(

I like how people actually replied to this thread and stuff. :mad:

Well basically a girlfriend vs. a girl friend is like this. A girlfriend is the one who you like/love and are attracted to, that's the one where if any sexual contact goes down, it's with them. You have a commitment to that girl in that you are supposed to only do anything sexual with her. A girl friend is a girl, whos your friend, and you guys talk and shit, no sexual activity (ie kissing, fucking etc) UNLESS it's friends with benefits, but in that case there aren't commitments.

Dig?

What's the difference between 'friend's with benefits' and a couple? Emotion? Alot of people love their friends.

when i meet a girl who has a boyfriend im always like "oh, you didnt know? boyfriends are MAD out of style"... lol

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Wtf @ people's lack of respect for relationships nowadays :mad: You deserve death. Painful death.

Commitment, like I said. If you have a friend with benefits it doesn't matter if you hook up with someone else, if you have a girlfriend, it does. Swingers are essentially all friends with benefits IMO.

lmao, i was just playin sonny...

i dont even mess with a girl unless its gonna be/is a relationsihp...

Fuck buddies is one thing..

You'll know it when your in love though...

Thats the difference...

Fuck buddies is fuck buddies... GF/BF is like, the one you are sexually attracted to is also one of your best friends.

Gimme your aim dephhhh

I honestly dont like that friends with benefits bull shit...if I am in a relationship... its all his..I aint sharing no cookies with no other mofo...feel me...

I've always been the type of chick that is focuses on who I am with...I am the type that gives 60 percent to the relationship...People say that I love hard but if I have feelings for you Imma sho it...Imma be there and be down for you no mater what!!....(almost no matter what) lol

GOOD! YOU^^ Stay that way and alert others to your beliefs, hurry now.

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its my name backwards, whats yours? I gotta add you.

Well, you pretty much answered your own question, its just friendship on a more intimate level. Somebody you can confide in better than anybody else.

But I feel you deph, girls seem to treat all guys the same bf or not, they hug and say "I love you" and shit to everybody. Throughout my life, I havent met one girl that actually fit the definiton of a gf. Or at least my definition. =P

i never really liked the friends with benefits...because 80 percent of the time. someone is going to become attached to the other person......and that person isn't gona be feelign that way towards the other...so friends with benefits...i'd just steer away from it..try to avoid it as much as possible

Very true, Shear. Its happened in my case. On several occassions. lol And I was the victim each time. =P


I wouldnt say steer clear, my advice is to just let the girl go at her pace and just walk at her level each of the way and dont get ahead of her or yourself.

What i've found is that love without attachment is the ultimate level. I have been with my gf for a long time, and I do love her and she loves me. I am happily binding myself to just one girl, and it doesnt bother me at all that I dont get others. Also, I have no desire to leave my gf, none at all.

The thing is I am too attached. It's kind of hard to explain... I feel as though if I were to lose her, I would not only feel bad, but I would feel like I have lost a part of my being. I don't what that second thing, just the bad feelings because feelings are easy to deal with. Right now im just trying to figure out how I can do it -_-.

i guess your got a point there....i guess just don't caught up.........best thing

Fuckin word @ MC venom and OMB.

i dont know.. in my opinion.. IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP... of course.. it's almost like marriage without a license..

Hah, marriage.. so close yet so far. You know, if you see some of the shit I see in youth relationships its no marriage without a license. =P


In fact, the title bf/gf doesnt seem to have any application. People become too liberal with shit these days. Not that its bad, but too much spanning of basic principles is confusing. =P

particularly why i said in serious relationships.. -_-

Oh.. my bad then. =P

Still.

i don't care what no one says but girls are some inconsistent mothafucka......never know what the hell they want....

Get a girlfriend and you will find out. And girlfriends are eventually meant to build up to a deeper relationship than friendships - well, not necessarily deeper, but a different emotion is associated with friendship than a girlfriend, at the highest level.