Why is it hard to make real friends nowadays
 

I believe in employing biblical principles as much as possible. I don't succeed all the time. But, the effort at least puts me on the right track. I'm striving toward perfection (maturity) in the Word. Anyway, why is it hard to make real friends nowadays?

I mean, the bible says, "treat others the way you want to be treated." So, I keep that in mind when dealing with people in my everyday life. Even when they are cantankerous, I try to be cordial.

The bible says, "He who has friends, must show himself to be friendly." So, I put myself out there alot to make new friends, but many people seem to be very cautious these days.

I think the world is caught up in vicious cycle of hurt, retaliate, hurt. People can grow to be so cynical in life, they fail to actually live it.

Am I wrong?

"If a traveller does not meet with one who is his better, or his equal, let him firmly keep to his solitary journey; there is no companionship with a fool."

The problem is, you will be hard pressed to find anybody who is smart enough to try and live like Jesus. Most people are fools.

^^That's interesting that you quoted that and used the word "traveller". I've always considered myself a sojouner or traveller of life.

Wow, I do believe what you just said is confirmation for me.


Thanks.

*read only the title*

my freinds I have now, are who i grew up with, i have 6 close fam. There was more, but you know how it goes as people grow older, cunts start doing there own thing, so yeh.

I dont need to "make" freinds, cause I grew up with the cunts I kick it with now.

I couldnt imagine myself going round looking for freinds.lol

do you do that while taking it in the ass....orrr....only when there's dicks in your mouth??


makin "friends" ain't hard if people actually like you.

i understand that. But, I'm just at a point in my life where I want to meet new people, travel to new places, and do things differently. Making associates is easy. I'm taking about tried-and-true close friends that are hard to come by. I just don't want to hang around doing the same old thing that everyone else is doing.

LMFAO buwahahhahahahahahaomg that was hilarious

i never really found it hard to find friends that are close at heart.....your not going to have 100 peolple that are you closest buds..but if you have about 2 or 3 then i'd say your doing good....if not...then.....your not..

nah it really wasnt, lol

i would think that you would have gotten all your laughs in the first 2039802234 somebody has said that exact same thing to Q... :bored:

come on now bro, u know the only reason you typed that "bwahhahahahhaha" bullshit is because you have some kind of wack e-beef with Q... come on, lets grow up people, jeez...

*waits for the "ooo, looks like Q has a butt-buddy MUAAHHAHAHA ROFFFLLMMFAOO comments*

:bored:

naahh son, you didn't get it, it's an inside joke. not because he's gay, but because he's a hypocrite.

anndd he's gay bwahahahahahaaa

word up







:thumbup:

dont everybody stop q hating and pic up a mic at once :)

lol, what a bunch of little kids.

you're too stupid to realize when someone's talkin about somethin way higher than that.

have fun with your paranoia-induced "beef" that you think the world has against you sad fucks.

Why does everybody defend the Q like he's a little ass boy. People insult everyone else on this board, but everyone goes "stop hating on Q" every 5 seconds. Wtf you don't even defend the females on this site, but you hold this nigga's hand because he's gay.

Well, you'd have a point if:


A.) People didn't use the fact that I'm gay as a weapon
B.) Pretend to not have a problem with me being gay, but then (do A)
C.) Beef in my threads where no beef is called for...

With that said, I agree with you...I'm a grown ass man...I can handle these jackasses...

I only wonder how much lip they'd have in my face.

OOps...there it is.

*silent like a church mouse*

*awaits, "Q, I'd say blah blah in ur face*

Sure...w/e u say (BEHIND A COMPUTER SCREEN) :thumbup:

Well everyone uses that against people. It's possible that people do know how to use their mouths to speak. Anything I say on here I would say to people in their face. You can't use the absense of me being there as an excuse to insult my ability as a person. To play a little role reversal, you wouldn't tell me that I wouldnt say shit to your face if i was in front of you. It's definetly an empty taunt, you know nobody on this site CAN say something to your face, physically, because we're not there. So just humble yourself since we're on the internet. All we haveo n here is our words, and I'm pretty sure we're gonna use them.

And obviously people take you being gay as a negative thing. So they'll use it against you. If I had something you thought was disgusting or that you disagreed with you can use it against me. Everyone gets attacked, I don't think something that only involves who you're sexually attracted to should be such a touchy issue that requires defending from other parties.

1st off, this is the i-net. So, people can be bigots without fear of reproach. Bro, bigotry due to sexual orientation is wrong in the real world, and legally could get someone in trouble. In that sense, it's not different from racism. No one would tolerate someone using the word nigger on this site, but they do the word 'faggot' due to their own insecurities/biases/and hatred.

If we cut off the internet, and you went on your JOB, and called someone who's a co-worker a "faggot", knowing they were homosexual, you wouldn't be working there for much longer and could face a lawsuit.

Come on bro...be decent.

Being gay is disgusting?

wow...You're wrong. Gay people are in every aspect of life. I think that's sad you feel that way...very sad.
I hope you grow to expand your mind and tolerance of people's differences.

And, I'm telling you, that you can feel however you want about gay people. But, if you were around me on a consistent basis--i.e., co worker--you wouldn't even come out your mouth like that. That's such an impossibility it's ridiculous to talk about it.

People are bigots in "clever" ways now...They hide behind their self-righteous morality, when, in fact, they're more jacked up than the people they are judging.


Don't make me go there.

Tolerate my opinion than. And I like girls who wear schoolgirl uniforms. Insult me for it. How is that even a big deal. I love my cousin, he's a man. Insult me for it. I mean get the fuck out of here. Sexual attraction isn't something to actually take THAT serious. I don't like gay people, because it makes me uncomfortable to be around them. Just like some girls don't like being around men because of the lack of security. It ruins male male relationships and definetly the masculant quality that makes a man what I believe is a man. Respect my right to believe what I want. I don't hate YOU, but I don't agree with that lifestyle. I'm not gonna go jump gay people or get filled with hatred when i even hear about any progress with the movement. I just don't agree with it, simple as that. My mind is more expanded than you could ever believe. I dont tell you how to live your life, the least you can do is not tell me how to think.

I've had alot of gay friends. 3 of them made a move on me. 1st time I said no, I'm not gay. I had to get dressed in front of gay dudes in gym, i didnt know the 2nd one was gay. The 3rd one I was still coo with before he moved. I used to hate when people discussed eating pussy around me, I used to think it was disgusting. That's all it is, I don't let it take away from my respect for you, prefered sex partner is like a favorite music Genre. I mean we're divided as people with the race shit already we don't need any sexual division.

1st off...the first part of what you said is irrelevant and makes no sense.

You don't like gay people? Do you know ALL gay people? That's doesn't make sense. It's right up there with "I don't like black people"...ooooook

Bigotry man...prejudice

Respect your right? I don't think you need my respect. I think you need to look yourself in the face and ask yourself why you're filled with intolerance toward a culture of people you don't know with any depth.

Your mind is expanded? ok...Well, if that's true, then why would being in a gay person's presence make you uncomfortable? hmm>? I mean, there are gay:

A)Doctors
B)Lawyers
C)Teachers
D)Preachers
E)EVERYONE

Bro...lemme tell you something...If you claim to hate gay people...how much more uncomfortable should THEY feel around you?


pssf

umm...no disrespect, but, I could psycho analyze the shit outta that bro...

Can you say latent feelings?

hmm...maybe not...but, you have to see how someone could think that...

Females have made moves on me...But, do I hate females? No.

Come on now...I think you're mis-directing your anger at the gay culture.



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Gay people aren't some different species of people. What about other "cultures" that show intolerance. Take a rapist for example, do you know every rapist in the world? No you don't but do you agree with rape? If so than good for you.

This is another thing that confuses me. There's a mental dictation with homophobia. Basically if you don't like gay people, than you're secretly gay. This is supposed to force me to say no no n I like gay people. Some teen girls feel uncomfortable when older men hit on them. God I can't even feel uncomfortable now? That shit is crazy.

I'm not talking about any of that. I'm talking about gay culture because that's what was brought up.


And wow @ you comparing being gay with being a rapist.


Bro...educate yourself please

Bro...The point is, why would a gay person, who you don't know, make you feel "uncomfortable" just by being around him. I do believe you were the one who said, "we're all people."

Furthermore, most psychologists will agree that when someone is blatantly violent in their attitude toward gays, and/or bashes gay people, they themselves often struggle with those thoughts/feelings. It's been known to happen, ALOT.



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No, you educate YOURSELF. You aren't God, you can't tell me how to feel about anything. You really need to learn to accept that people are gonna disagree with your way of thinking as you do to mine. The only difference is I never once insulted your intellegence. You need to expand YOUR mind.

Here's where the conversation ends because

A) You claim to be open minded but can't see past your own bigotry
B) You're getting upset over my "words"
C) I'm gay and don't give a shit whether or not you "like" me


^^^I just wonder why a total stranger would make you feel uncomfortable in your own skin, if that person isn't a threat.

Seeing gay people doesn't make me uncomfortable. GEtting hit on by a gay person makes me uncomfortable. BEcause for one its disgusting to me, and plus I simply don't agree with it. And I compared being gay with rape because they both are sexual stimulants. I was sure you didnt agree with rape, so I wanted you to see how it feels to have your beliefs attacked. You don't agree with rape? Do you secretly wanna rape somebody?

Nah, I dont actually choose to stop talking so yea.


You're a bigot with your own beliefs. You're being a bigot with me because I don't agree with you. Is it wrong for me to NOT agree with it? ARe you mentally ill?

That's not what you said bro. :nono:

You said, "Gay PEOPLE make me uncomfortable."

So, do you honestly think ALL GAY GUYS want you?

buahuahuahuahuahuahuahauha

SIKE.

Get off your own dick bro. Come to DC...Home of the hot boys...It's possible you'd get looked over like wilted lettuce at the salad bar.


^^There ya go...So, you could walk around and feel confident.


WTF

Who am I being bigoted against, BIGOTS?


lol

I'm sorry, but I don't respect the opinion of those KLANSMEN who Bombed the church that killed FOUR LITTLE BLACK GIRLS.

I don't respect the opinion of those KKK who Hung black men up by the neck?

Furthermore, I don't respect the opinion of someone who says "gay people are disgusting"...I'm sure that's what those two BIGOTS said right before they KILLED Matthew Shepard, a gay teen.

Fuck all dat shit.

Nah, you're calling me a bigot just because I don't agree with being gay. And that's being a bigot. It's a two way street. But hey, you know whats funny. I've never been hit on by any gay person. Surprise. You need to look at yourself man, you would think someone who has so much "hate" on this site would take sometime for self reflection.

You added more to it. That's sad.

lesbians who look good are dope, gay's arent :(

And, you just said you've never been "hit on"?

WTF

Contradictions man

o wow...

Disagreeing with me doesn't make you a bigot.

Your INTOLERANCE makes you one.

"I think gays are disgusting"

^^Yea, I think that about sums it up, especially since you don't know ALL GAY PEOPLE.

PS

yes, I am "intolerant" about any view that says, "HATE"...toward another group...

That's the kind of bullshit that led to the holocaust...The middle passage...and now, currently, homophobia and hate crimes.

I mean, if you're going to harbor hate, at least be creative with it. Pretend to be interesting in "family values", and sleep around on the side.

FUCK OUTTA HERE.

I could give a fuck about family values. I just have an opinion. Yes since i dont like gay people that means that I'm gonna go kill a bunch of gays and march through the streets preaching words of hate. K.

A friend of mine told me to tell you that to see if you were gonna say that I was secretly gay.