Whew. Wasn't expecting this.
 

So my woman has been having an affair for a month, ever since she was healed from having our daughter.

LOL ouch at me.

dude, for real??? what the fuck. How'd you find out?

She told me.

Fucking bitch.

I KNEW something was going on.

-_-

dude, thats even fucking more intense. Any real reasons?? You sure she wasn't fuckin round on you before the baby n shit?? U 2 married or what?

Engaged.

And no, its been since Bridgette was born.

And I suppose I am kind of an asshole, so I suppose that would be a reason.

I dunno man.

My guess is as good as yours lol.

i unno man, sounds like you blamin yourself for the whole thing by saying you an asshole and shit. But usally its not always just one person's fault, specially after having a baby togeather that a partner cheats. I would def. not put the blame all on myself, i mean sure..we all have bad quailtys and shit. Like i can some times be really quick to get pissed at my girlfreind for dumb shit, but she can be a real bitch sometimes too--n she knows it. Just hope you dont turn into a fucking pussy like Poetic's dumb ass. But that shit dont bother you that some other dude been with your old lady??

oh man :(

well this certainly iznt going to help wif my problem of being sexist :/ stay up spicca, werd

Then I lost all respect for what I knew of your girl, man.

Later.

Blaming myself..?

Nah.

That's just her excuse.

And honestly, it bothers the fuck out of me man. I just created a new life with this girl out of love, and now it's thrown back in my face.

3 years down the drain.

Of course it bothers me man, I'm just mature enough to deal with it and move on.

And it's pretty ironic that this guy is a huge fan of my music, and his favorite song is "Knight in Shining Armour", which was inspired by Jenn (girl in question here).

So yeah.

Pretty big kick in the fucking balls.

But whatever.

-Smokes Weed-

Smoke the fuck up dude... I just got my feelings hurt, not like that, but like in a way that didn't hurt my feelings, just angered me a little for even being myself about the situation.

Girls can be as ruthless as guys, even worse, don't put up with that shit, but be there more than her for your daughter.

I hate to say it but marriages are ruined all the time thanks to cheating, now yours might be, if I was in your situation, who knows what I would do.

Good luck and best of wishes.

Thanks man.

Honestly I don't know what do to do, but my daughter is my NUMBER ONE priority.

A few ideas have been tossing around in my mind:

A) Ignorance is bliss. Be the asshole that she acuses me of being and just not care, cause honestly, I'm not sure if I even really do anymore. This guy is a serious downgrade...and honestly I laugh at the thought of her stooping that low.

B) Forgive her and move on with our lives. Not for the sake of us, I am strictly thinking of my daughter in this situation. I want to be there for my baby girl everyday, I want to be home everynight...I WANT TO BE THERE. And if we break up, I will not get to do that.

C) I deserve WAY better than this shit. Now that all of this has surfaced, it appears that I am not always the bad guy, so now, I'm going back and thinking of when she did acuse me of shit, knowing I didn't, and now its all starting to make sense.

So yeah.

Life is awesome! :thumbup:

Lol.

wait, so you know this dude?? Or how does he know your music??

Yeah, i can see your point on how bad you feel. I dont know what i'd do if my girlfreind cheated on me, we are due--a lilttle baby girl, any day now. May 12 was the due date...but shes a stubborn lil one. So, like i orignally stated, i hope everything works out for you L

Yeah I know this guy.

I know where he lives too, and that is the advantage that he does not have against me.

He's a huge fan of my music...everytime I did see him it was always on his iPod.

But thanks man...and good luck with your baby. :thumbup:

all i can think of saying is

"Wait, maybe theres an explaination for this shit!"

"What?! She tripped, fell, landed on his dick?

man, what a fucking bitch. You should go whoop his fucking ass :thumbup:

n i appreicate the support, i'll def. post pictures up. How old's your lil girl ne ways??

I'll tell you some fucking shit right now dude, and im gonna come off like a dick, and insulting and hostile, but i'd say the same shit to my best friend if he was in his situation

First

YOU!! YOU FUCKED UP REALLLYYY BAD to date the type of girl that's gonna cheat on you right after having your kid, and you definetly picked the wrong fuckng bitch to do that with and you fucked up real bad. Cuz maybe it was your fault, maybe she was a great girl but you were a dick and it forced her to cheat, but either way even if she wasn't it's still your fault for trusting a dumb bitch and you shoulda known better.

And for a fucking girl to have your kid, and then cheat on you FOR A MONTH, i the biggest slap in the face you could ever be dealt, SHE WAS THINKING BOUT HIS DICK WHILE YOU FUCKED HER AND YOU'RE GONNA DO NOTHING, if she wanted another guy she should have fuckin told you she does and left you. Go slap her in the fucking face really hard, (just once) or shake the fucking shit out of her, or take all her clothes and burn them or rip them up and break everything you ever bought her orrr start flirting with another girl and then give her all the shit you bought your current girl DO SOMETHING and I fucking suggest you leave her and try and get full custody of the kid

This fucking prick KNOWS she is ENGAGED TO YOU AND HAS YOUR KID andd for someone to do that to another man is so fucking disrespectfull but you fucking disrespect yourself worse because you're gonna let him get away with it!?!?!?! That makes you the biggest fucking bitch i know

Stop being a fucking pussy and grab a baseball bat and get some friends and go fuck him up the point he needs to be in the hospital and then take a picture and show ur girl and say YOU SEE WHAT YOU MADE ME DO YOU FUCKING BITCH, DONT FUCK WITH ME

Man this shit pisses ME off and i dont even fucking know you or your gf, i'm ready to come down to wherever the fuck yoou are baseball bat this faggots face in and cuss out ur girl do something u fucking moron

Violence won't solve anything man.

What's done is done, and nothing can take it away now.

Now thats not saying if I'm out and about and I've had a few drinks in my and I see him, I would probably smash a bottle over his ugly ass face.

She will be two months old on Saturday man...I haven't posted pics up of her yet. :(

VIOLENCE SOLVES EVERYTHING IT'S HOW SHIT HAS BEEN SOLVED THROUGHOUT THE HISTORY OF HUMANITY AHHHH UR PISSING ME OFF IF I WAS UR FRIEND WHERE U LIVE ID GO DO IT FOR YOU

fuckk have some fuckig respect in yourself

you know who he is and what he looks like!?!?!?! GOO FUCK HIM UP

it's called karma, pay back, it's what he deserves and it send a fucking clear message across

lol.....Karma has nothign to do with im going and beating the fuck out of him JTR. Karma would work in another way, such as...if that dude had a baby and than his baby's moma cheated on him.....Karma is more irony in a situation.

LOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLL.

I love your spirit man, and I do agree with you, BUT........

...It's hard to get full custody of a kid when you beat people with baseball bats.

I don't want her to have any shit on me, and that is EXACTLY what I am going for.

Bridgette is a MOTHER FUCKING MCGHIE...she belongs with her blood, or else she is going to end up just like her mother.

And yeah, I can be pissed off, you can call me a bitch all you fuckin want man, but I am thinking of my daughter here.

EXACTLY.

What goes around comes around.

He will get his, in one way or the other.

no doubt, theres bigger shit to worry bout than whoopin some fuckin loser's ass. I'd just get one of my big ass buddies to go do it for me, no connection to me in a court room--holla!

you n me think alot in the same way....so here's a question. What exactly have you said or done about it with your girlfriend??

I have cheated before, so what goes around comes around.

I dunno...its a long story man.

Karma...its a real bitch.

man but u shouldnt cheat on ur girl either but wtf is the difference she did this after having ur kid thats fucked up and then pay one of ur boys to fuck him up for you

Take all your anger and channel it into finishing my song...lol

rofl i was all for JTR's approach till you said that. Which is true. Hopefully, you can try to get full custody and then Go all Em and diss the fuck out of her on a track. WORD :shoot:

Oh you can expect a diss track coming.

A diss to one of my biggest fans..? LOL.

Probably a waste of time, but its a way to vent.

I appologize on the delay man...it is coming, and you won't be dissapointed.

LOL man you should see the fucking size of my brother.

He is turning 17 on Sunday and I swear the fucker is close to 300 pounds. He does have fat, but A LOT of it is muscle man.

My brother already said he would rock that faggot for me. He knows who he is too.

That's like Stan fucking Kim behind Eminem's back and not telling him.

What da fuck nigga.

your brother should go beat him up without your word.

Just be like "I don't account for my brother's feelings towards my girlfriend. He fucked that guy up on his own accord, I made no such order towards him." werd

And cheating was something I was never proud of...

BUT:

A) I was drunk, and it was a one night stand one time, and a girl kissed me when I was sober. I didn't kiss her, she kissed me.

B) We were much younger and it was much earlier in the relationship as this happened two years ago this summer.

C) WE WEREN'T ENGAGED AND DIDN'T HAVE A BABY.

Now she:

A) Hung out and talked to this guy continously in text messages. They did this for almost a month, and I did ask "What the fuck?" before, but then she throws my past in my face and says I don't have a reason not to trust her.

B) Does not drink or do any drugs AT ALL. She breastfeeds, and doing any that shit isn't good for the baby as it could contaminate the milk. She was consciously sober and doing this.

C) Bridgette was FUCKING SLEEPING in the next room. Our baby girl who is not even two months old.

Ugh.

The more I think about it the more disgusted I get.

Lol.

Considering I already have a bad name among the RCMP and judges in this town, I'm not so sure if they would buy that.

nah nigs, breastfeeding is the healthiest for the baby, but she fuckin' with the baby in the next room? Damn. What is wrong with women these days.. Don't even respect their own mother fucking children.

I meant like the alcohol/THC or whatever would contaminate the milk.

I know that shit is healthy as fuck lol.

fuck it i agree with having your boys go and fuck this dude up

stomp on his nuts n shit until he passes out so every time he feels an intense pain in the abdomen from bustin a nut he'll remember the shit he did

or better yet have the fucker shot and then have strobe delete this thread

damn l.e., that shits mad fucked up. i know that this situation is going to be nuts now that you're both bonded for life with the baby and all...its not like you can totally shake her. damn. no matter what though, make sure that this doesnt directly affect your baby as far as her being thrown into the chaotic mess that will most likely result from all of this for years to come.

all i can say is that i wish you the best fam. word.


s.v.

Lol.

Tempting indeed.



Exactly...she is going to be a part of my life whether I like it or not.

My mom is very concerned about my daughter actually...and she has every reason to be. She is a socail worker too, so she was already trying to guide me through how to get custody LOL.

But yeah...

Fucked up shit. It's been a long day.

Gotta thank everybody for their support and listening to my sorry ass LMAO. :thumbup:

^^^well, if you want to smoke an e-blunt...its on me.

*starts breaking open an optimo...*


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