Saying "I love you" to your dad...
 

do any of you say that shit to your dad?

Iunno man, I do love my dad, but I have trouble saying that, it feels weird man lol

He's going away to Florida for the whole winter, so I wanna casually be like "take care and have fun, love you man" but that shit feels weird as hell and i'll prob end up just being like "ok ill miss you, have fun bye"

it's cos he's a dude...seriously, think about it....you'd have no problem saying it to your mother or sister but would you say it to your brother too? lol

no, if he's going away for a long while, tell him you love 'em before he goes. make it brief as if it's nothing.

I know it's hard and difficult and I never say it to my dad but before they go on a trip that's far away and you know it, you also know, being a man, that anything can happen. If something bad happens to him you want him to know that his family cares about him and you're his family

that's how it works for fathers and sons. So although you see him every now and then and never say it, ever, you won't be seeing each other for a while so instead of telling him over the phone sometime like a little faggot punk (you'd never do that) tell him before he goes real quaintly. That's the only way to do it. It's neutral and acceptable.

Yea I know, that's what i'm saying lol

Lol, it's your Dad.

^^ I know, that's the whole point lol

You exist because of him. I don't think its a big deal to tell him you love him unless hes an asshole.

you'll wish you had if he dies or some shit. so boss up and do it you pussy, haha

say you love him...as much as possible. nobody is promised tomorrow, you might not get another chance to show that you care. he's blood. i wish my pops was still here so that i could say it to him on a daily. chuuuuuch.


s.v.

i dont say it to any of my family...


personal reasons.......

I do, every day.

well I said it and was going to say it either way so quit the damn whining lol

i'm just saying, if you knew how me and my dad where you'd get it

haha i have a good relationship with my dad and we love each other...but we dont say it to each, lol....i wonder when the last time was...goes beyond my recollection

exactly same here man!

He's going on a trip for a long time to florida so i said it and he fkn laughs at me before saying it back, lmfaoo fucking hell

i have a compleatly fucked and messed up relationship with my whole family....


so enjoy it guys....

I don't really show my feelings to anyone.

I don't say "I love you" to anyone in my family. Shit, I don't even hug them at all unless its meaningful. Like if my mom, or either one of my sisters is upset I might give them a hug. But my dad, or my two bros.. they get nothing coz that is just how I am.

Its not that I don't love them, or that I love them less. I just don't show my emotions at all to anyone really. The last time I got really emotional was at my grandad's funeral, since then I've been like a rock though.

Bottle up and explode!

my dad had to run away because he got im some trouble with the law, so I have no idea where he is or how to contact him... so everytime he calls me once in a blue moon i always tell him I love him and I miss him before he hangs up... I guess it really also depends on the relationship. If your dad was about to die, I'm pretty sure more than half the cats here would say I love you to your dad before he takes his last breathe.

well..ive never lived with my dad..and i dont get to see him that much...so whenever we get off the phone we say i love you...not a big deal if you ask me..if i were you..id say it.

I never said "I love you" to either of my parents, or any of my family. tha last person i said it to wuz my grandmother tha last time i saw her b4 she died. but after seeing my dad gitting slowly torchered by having his fingers slowly ripped off by that fucking wood splitter over tha summer, that shit fucked me up. when he wuz in tha hospital that night, b4 i left i told him i loved him. n sense then, whenever i see my parents, i tell them i love them when we say goodbye. actually, after my dad gotout of tha hospital and wuz all fucked up on morphine in bed, i wuz giving him some pills n shit, n he almost started to cry and he said that when i told him i loved him it almost made it worth going through that shit, i wuz just like "ay ay spicca, don't say that" n then he said sumthin like, i never said it to him so he thought i didn't love him, so i felt fuckin guilty, lol. cuz i do know that shit means a lot to him, cuz my grandfather NEVER, not once, ever told him that he loved him, n it always bothered him.

so werd, if you love a mafucka let them know, don't let them die n then have regrets, cuz nuthin can change that shit, n u never know when they gonna go. that thread i just made about that girl gittin smoked by tha dump truck just proves that.

:love: werd

My dads dead, when Im going through fucked up shit I used to kick it with a beer and talk to him, @ the end of my little sorry ass conversation Id say I love you.

Guess its the same thing, lol

yeah people need reminded, and even though you don't a lot a of people aren't that strong and actually need it, your jtr your dad doesn't seem to be that type of person but its always good anyway, and could put the relationship on a higher level. like what these peeps is sayin how they never said it till sumin bad happens, that was the same with me, when you find out whats important in life you progress and find that saying i love you is very important.

my dad went to the olympics for Judo, he's a pretty tough dude but he's also a big baby deep down haha

I try to drop a courtesy "I love you" to my dad and my mom every once in a while. I'm kinda rolling with Fletcher on this shit. I love them, I just don't like showing emotions to very many people.

I hadn't told my mom I loved her in like, two or so years and for whatever reason, one day I was just like what the fuck am I doing. I don't see her that much anymore, but when I do I try to casually slip the "I love you" in.

colby....





i love you

you don't love me... you just love my doggystyle :hump: werd