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Civil. 02-06-09 01:24 AM

Baby Mamas?
 
Man, i'm not with either of them any longer. But this is how it went down, I was dating heather for 3 years right? Well, while she was pregnant with Jaden i fucked around on her with Christine. This continued the whole time heather was pregnant. I mean i really started developing feelings for christine, but i mean i was about to have a KID with heather you know. i had to straighten up. i didn't want to do her like that, anyways. So May 25 2007 comes around, and we have Jaden. Not 2 weeks later, about a month since the last time i seen christine. she calls me, and says SHE'S pregnant. So all together Layla, my little girl. And Jaden are ONLY 9 months apart. lmao, i know thats bad. like the exact same ammount of time it takes to have a kid, is how far apart they are...Anyways, i've been raising Jaden by myself for the past year and a half. This dumb bitch heather calls me out of the blue yesterday and tells me she got a new apartment. and she wants jaden back, now what the fuck? can i do about that? nothing or what? we were never married or anything so she does have full rights still. we never went to court, and i'm not paying child support. Also, here it is almost a year since i've seen layla...and christine calls me. wants to get back together. after she hasnt let me see my daughter in over a year. I'm stumped, what should i do...it seems like i'm losing a child...but gainin the other one, shits fucked up aignt it?

anyways heres some pics...maybe it'd help wit some opinions from yall



Heather





Jaden





Christine





Layla-Like i said its been a while since i seen her. so all i gots old pics



Cola 02-06-09 01:29 AM

well first off, real talk

thast pretty pathetic that you couldn't be loyal to the women that's having your CHILD bro, like she is pregnate, and you off fucking around?

come on dawg, no REAL man that is IN LOVE with a women....gonna be doign that

i say you man up, and find out if that second baby is yours

if they both yours, you take care of em, like a real man


and allow things to happen...like, instead of forcing them, i mean if you can't stay loyal to a women while they have your child in they belly, you obviosuly shouldn't be with them

thats my 2 cents

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:30 AM

depending on where u live i can give u some legal advice.
first off when a child is born yalll both automatically have joint custody.
one has to actually apply to the family court for full custody....so if u havent done that than yall still have joint custody.
you will have a nasty custody battle in court.most times the court sides with the mother.
u have to prove she is an unfit mother.either way they are going to at least give her access to the kid.
first off,she should have been paying child support while u were raising ur kid.so thats a minus for her.
u wouldnt have to be paying any since u were raising the kid,duh.....
if u feel u can give your child the best home,than fight.prove that u got a job,stable home, n she is unstable cuz she up n left.if she does any drugs,etc,if she is out of work,if she doesnt have a stable place,they are going to look at all that.but she will get visitation.worst case scenario for her it might be supervised visits.
have lots of proof.witnesses,evidence if u want to discredit her.
but,the courts claim they do whats in the best interest of the child.
got any other questions holler
in the meantime stop makin babies

Cola 02-06-09 01:33 AM

never take your child from their mother..unless they unfit of course

like, i would NEVER do that to my daughter, EVER...doesnt matter if my g/f cheated on me and fucked ME over.


you child deserves a two parent life, alsong as both parents are good parents

Adam 02-06-09 01:35 AM

Well, I think you're an asshole.

You should pay for both children no matter what.

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:35 AM

well if dude's been raising his son on his own for a year n a half,who is to say the best thing is for that kid to be with his mother?
has she seen him in that time?

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:36 AM

he doesnt have to pay for the kid he is raising.she does.

Civil. 02-06-09 01:36 AM

^lol well the thing is...she wants him back monday. is there no way to stop that from happening UNTIL we go to court?

Cola 02-06-09 01:36 AM

i think a child needs both parents, real talk

i only had a mother, and now that i am a parent, i'll never leave my daughters life unless i'm dead

Adam 02-06-09 01:38 AM

You're a pretty shitty dude Kris, real talk.

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:39 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kris Stubbs.
^lol well the thing is...she wants him back monday. is there no way to stop that from happening UNTIL we go to court?


who has full custody?if yall never went to court,then both yall have custody.
she will have to take u to court to take that kid from u.
she cannot just take him.
i woudnt turn my son over to someone who was an absentee for a year an a half

Cola 02-06-09 01:39 AM

my name is Chris too, fuck

Adam 02-06-09 01:40 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by LaTiNKiTTeN
who has full custody?if yall never went to court,then both yall have custody.
she will have to take u to court to take that kid from u.
she cannot just take him.
i woudnt turn my son over to someone who was an absentee for a year an a half


They were never married, she has full custody, he can fight it, but mothers usually win unless they are unstable.

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:40 AM

yeah but you're not chris with a K cuz that would be too cool

Civil. 02-06-09 01:40 AM

Quote:
well if dude's been raising his son on his own for a year n a half,who is to say the best thing is for that kid to be with his mother?
has she seen him in that time?


^she gave him to me, she didn't want him. said she couldnt do it, she was taking pills and just started a new relationship. said she didn't have time. and now that she gets an apartment with this new fucker. she wants him back. that bitch is a conveniant mom...that shit dont work like that. you cant have him when u want him you know? shes seen him maybe 6 times in a year and a half...

and as far as christine, she didn't have a choice, she had to move out of state. her mom was dying and shit...but now shes back so i dont know what to do.

Cola 02-06-09 01:40 AM

^^ he's right

i've seen shitty ass women get custody based on the simply fact that they are the mother

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:42 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Adam
They were never married, she has full custody, he can fight it, but mothers usually win unless they are unstable.


i'd have to see the court order.
dude shoulda got something in writing when she left her kid.
if she does have full custody she can take him n he'll have to fight her.
unlikely but he might be able to get his kid back if they think she is unfit.

maybe its what u get for what u did
get in ur other kid's life if the bitch is willing.
u shoulda been fighting to see ur daughter n paying support

Adam 02-06-09 01:42 AM

Karma police.

Cola 02-06-09 01:43 AM

poppin pills

what a skank bro, tell that bitch you give her some oxy's to go fuckin O.D. and stay outta your life

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:43 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kris Stubbs.
^she gave him to me, she didn't want him. said she couldnt do it, she was taking pills and just started a new relationship. said she didn't have time. and now that she gets an apartment with this new fucker. she wants him back. that bitch is a conveniant mom...that shit dont work like that. you cant have him when u want him you know? shes seen him maybe 6 times in a year and a half...

and as far as christine, she didn't have a choice, she had to move out of state. her mom was dying and shit...but now shes back so i dont know what to do.



u didnt answer the question,did u EVER go to court n did she get full custody at any time

Cola 02-06-09 01:44 AM

like no man will EVER raise my daughter, fuck that

Cola 02-06-09 01:44 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Adam
Karma police.



that's so true

sorry Stubb's

Adam 02-06-09 01:44 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Coke Dealer
like no man will EVER raise my daughter, fuck that



Not even me? :(

Cola 02-06-09 01:46 AM

you can be that werid uncle Adam

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:47 AM

rofl@uncle adam

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:47 AM

n i hope u dont mean wierd in that way

Cola 02-06-09 01:48 AM

my daughter would be like

'fuckin stop saying 'eh' after everything Adam'

Adam 02-06-09 01:48 AM


Cola 02-06-09 01:48 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by LaTiNKiTTeN
n i hope u dont mean wierd in that way



perv .

Cola 02-06-09 01:48 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Adam



naw son, i didn't say Past Tense

Adam 02-06-09 01:49 AM

Don't hate on Uncle Fester, Addams Family was the shit.

Adam 02-06-09 01:50 AM

I'd be Don Vito for an uncle..


Civil. 02-06-09 01:50 AM

No me and heather never went to court. i didn't make her sign any paper work, or anything. she didnt act like she wanted him back. she just gave him to me when we split up...i've been payin for everything i've got the reciepts for everything i've bought him. just in case it ever went to that..


..and who said i wasn't giving christine money lmao. that bitch gets a check EVERY week from me. she's happy, trust me. it wasnt her fault she had to leave. plus thats my little girl. i've always done everything i can for my kids. i need yall to understand i know i fucked up. But i'm a god damn good father.

Cola 02-06-09 01:51 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Adam
I'd be Don Vito for an uncle..





mumblin n shit .

Adam 02-06-09 01:51 AM

Man, Vito kills it.



Sucks, he got fucked over for touching the wrong girl the wrong way.

Cola 02-06-09 01:53 AM

dude i'd so fuck that chick all the way on the right

s'long as my gf aint pregnate

Civil. 02-06-09 01:53 AM

^lmfao. fuck u aphilly. lol

LaTiNKiTTeN 02-06-09 01:54 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kris Stubbs.
No me and heather never went to court. i didn't make her sign any paper work, or anything. she didnt act like she wanted him back. she just gave him to me when we split up...i've been payin for everything i've got the reciepts for everything i've bought him. just in case it ever went to that..


..and who said i wasn't giving christine money lmao. that bitch gets a check EVERY week from me. she's happy, trust me. it wasnt her fault she had to leave. plus thats my little girl. i've always done everything i can for my kids. i need yall to understand i know i fucked up. But i'm a god damn good father.


if she doesnt have custody she cannot take him
do not let her take him.
if she wants to visit tell her to take u to court cuz she'll take him n not give him back.then u'll have to go to court to get him back which could take a loooong time.
make her go to the court for visitation

Cola 02-06-09 01:55 AM

You know how my mom used to describe my dad to me

'he may have been a bad husband, but that doesn't mean he's going to be a bad father to you (even though he wasn't around)'

i'd always ask about him, and she always said ...the way he treated me wasn't the way he would treat you


n i met him when i was liek 18 and she was right, i loved him, cool guy we got along and shit

parent hood and realtionships are soooo different

Civil. 02-06-09 01:55 AM

well when the cops came last time. they said it was only my decision where he stayed when she wasn't there. But once the mother was there, being as we never were married. she has full decisions on where and who the child goes too


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