Question for peeps who have a female in they lives...
 

Two part question, peeps.

What do you value more...

Whoever you're fucking at this moment?

Or...

Whoever you consider to be ya boyz?

And...whatever your answer turns out to be...

What circumstances would make you reverse your opinion?

bros before hoes mayne...



females arnt forever...


they will still be your boys after she leaves you..

I aint with a girl at the moment but i'll still answer.I'm really close with a girl at the moment (her names Alysha incase ya wanted to know) but we aint together yet. I'll use her for this question coz I wanna get with her.

I'd pick my girl coz I love her so much and I wanna settle down with her. But my boyz would still be close to me and we'd still be close mates.

What would make me change is if me and my girl split up coz I'd turn to my boyz for support coz I know they'll always be there for me just like I'd be there for them

I'd Choose My Boyz...Girls Come And Go...And Shit...If The Time Ever Comes For Me 2 Choose...It Will Be Ma Boyz..

I Mean...Yeh I Like My Girl Alot...But I Known My Friends For Fuckin Ever...We Will Do Anythin 4 Each Other...That Shit You Cant Find Or Get In A Girl Straight Away, Or Even Ever..

My Boys Always Come First...

The circumstances that'll make me reverse my opinion though, is the circumstance that if I do marry this girl, then Famliy will always come first, because eventually even friends leave, but family is forever.

i just started fucking with this chick, and she's mad cool, like she never gets in any beef with my boys...but if it came down to it,its a hard decision

because who u think are ya boys arent always what they appear to be

Good feedback, gentlemen...

I wonder what the ages are of ya'll...

I'll bet anything, just about anything...

That S.Dott and 8-off are older than the others...

Boyz are bad ass ta have when ya young...

But I came from a large crew...

Like, 15 of us...

Started hanging when I was 14 with them.

Now, 20 years later...

I only hang with one of em.

Where did the other 14 go?

They either died, or fucked me over, or moved away, or I fucked them over...

To me, boyz come and go...

A good woman will make you feel like more of a man than any friend will.

As I heard in a movie once...

The wrong woman will break you
But the right one can make you.

Peace

nice advice BTK ^
most friends aren't forever most of the time. they will move away and not contact you anymore.. not want to know you anymore.. or screw you over . as my brother did to our friend of about 6 years the other day. i wont get into it - but yea .

I'd have to go with my girl. My boys are just that, and they are always there to kick it with, go get fucked up drunk and cause trouble, but it is my girl that is there in the morning when I am all hungover, and pissed off. My girl aint the type to try to make me choose, and that is another good quality. A good woman is going to be there no matter what.

werd...

except im only still in high school and if i slept over a chicks house,i'd end up giving her fathers shotgun brains...get it lol

nah but i see all the time with my boys girls that dont like other friends,no matter what, theres a good chance your boy would pick his girl over you too, no matter what they say

if they get in fights n shit,its natural, u spendin alot of time with someone else, and the other feels left out, so he hates, that you should pay no mind too

but if the chick just wants u to disown your friends for the simple fact she doesnt like you....she's a bitch....i advise u to leave her

Exactly, if any girl comes at you like, "its either your friends or me" then kick her ass out.

I'd Say Bros Before Hoes Cuz we ve only gone out for about 2 months nows...
But Shed Never Be like Choose Between your Friends an Me...

Shed Lose

lol...S.DoT Is 12...And He Gives Net BlowJobs For Free..

But To Answer The Question..

Friends Before Women

Its A Fact...

I Agree Wit B2K Wit Sayin Ya Boyz Screw Ya Over...Women Screw To Get What They Want..

^word...


from my experiences, ive found that friends are forever.

ive known my best friend for 10 years, my second for 9 and my third for 8...

i mustve had 20 girlfriends in that time..

they are always there when i need them and im there for them..


shit, ive been living at my friends house rent free for 6 months now..


Girls come and go but friends are forever...

and by the way, im 18 B..

if i was with someone and she had my baby, or i was married to her. id put her over my homies, but other then that no.

i only have about 6 friends that i consider real, so it would take a bad ass chick for me to leave them. i have alot of people im cool with but nothing like those 6, we been homies since 3rd grade ill do anything for them.

but all you guys saying friends are forever, take a step back and watch your homies, i bet half of them aint as real as you think.
when i was young if any of my friends got jumped i was always there to back them up, but when i got jumped no one wanted to do shit about it. when one the guys i know tried hanging him self, im the one that cut him down, how did he thank me? him and 3 other guys jumped me a month later.

homies aint always what you think they are you might have a few that are real but most of them are only around while everythign is nice

Didn't read the responses yet.. but here's mine.

It all depends on the situation.

If you like the girl.. and that's as far as it goes.. then you should put your boys before her. But, if you really love her and see a future with her.. she should come way before them.

I tend to value my girlfriend Brittany alot moe now a'days then my crew. Its not like we dont chill and shit anymore but its just that be4 I hooked up wit her I was a real mess. I was always gettin arrested, in and out of jail, gettin drunk every minute of the day and just being a bum b/c I didnt give a fuk. Then after I got her she really changed my whole veiw on life. It got to a point were I wanted to be with her everyday and not even just to have sex but to just chill with her, watch a movie or t.v or something. Every time my boys would call me up about some type of drama i wouldnt take part b/c I knew it would hurt her if i got arrested and i didnt want to bring her no pain. My girl is my heart and thats 4real.....I love her so much and I dont ever want to hurt her or bring her pain. She does so much for me and shows me so much Love that noone has ever done for me in my life. Im only 18 but I can honestly say that she's wifey and I think I found my dream girl.....as corney as it sounds im speakin the truth and thats real.......1

Watch it...I'm 14, and they only free because I feel you and your mommy both repay me well....at my crib...lights dimmed....Marvin Gaye playing...it's like watching lesbian porno.

But anywho
I've had people that come and go in my life...They only there, when a real situation comes up, thats the real test on who your friends are. The people in my building, shit, I'm down for them, and I know its like that back. But, a woman does change who you can be. It can turn you grimey, it can turn you into a different person, so looking from your own perspective, it can seem like your friends are fucking you over. Though its not like this all the time. You know that if she your true love, that shes always down for you. Never let a female tie you up and change who you are, because if she truly loved you, then there'd be no need for change.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^WERD

but if u find the right bitch liek me u wont have to worry bout that shit she understands everything and knows when it is her time and when it aint
but i do agree with old buddy ur boys will be there all ways if they r true boys
im out
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o yeah nice thread topic dawg

bros.....

if the bitch would make u make a decision
SHE IS A BITCH... nothin else 2 it

I think I was like the 1st or 2nd person to reply to this thread and I said I'd pick my girl. I explained that I aint with this girl but I love her so much. I'd do anythin for this girl within reason. I'd definatly fight for her. I say her because I'm goin through some personal problems at the moment and she's the one who's tryin to get me through it. My boyz are'nt around no more. Everythin changed when we left school coz we've gone in different directions but this girl is still here for me....

My gurl gives, ...me the love my dawgs..couldnt give, ..

Or the female friends..i got...

So i must go with my girl..

My friends,...will remain, ...cuz they are real...

^^^werd.....i agree wit you

My girl over my bros ^ agree with the Edicius and Y not. My girl gives me love that no one else ever could

Yea I'm a senior in high school but i found my true love. My girl is always there for me and will always be there. Me and here have gone through more stuff in like 2 years than me and my bros ever have in the past 10 years. My boys say that they are gonna be there for me and then go off and dis me screw that. My babys my life.

I agree with the last three posts. Eventhough me and this girl arent together, she's still cared for me and kept my feet on the ground. My boys couldnt do that. She's my rock. I go to her with my problems coz I know she'll help me. I love her so much. I wish we were more than friends

with me it's who ever i made plans with first. Besides me and my niggaz are beyond that. We all chose our girls over each other cause we gonna stay niggaz regardless. We all looking ahead to the future with families and shit and that requires some sacifices and we all know what the mean and we don't take it personal. But the only rule is that you girl can't make you change you plans with your boys and vise versa. Cause, I love my girl but if I planned something with my niggaz then she'll just be left out. Believe me, over here everyone knows the deal. Holla.

My boy Kevin comes before any girl. We've been tight ever since we were 3. We even live 400 miles apart now and I talk to him more than I do my friends around here. As for my boys around here...depends on how serious I end up getting with this girl. As of right now, it's my boys. However, if things work out...she'll quickly take their place. The only one I'd put before her is Kevin because no matter what happens, rain or shine, we're always there for each other and have each others back when the time is needed. I've made a few trips back to STL to help him out...and he's made a few down here to help me out. You don't find friendship like that nowadays.

Bros B4 Hoes