I need some real Advice
 

I been friends with this girl, we'll call her Sarah. I been friends with Sarah for about a year and a half, when we first met, we were into eachother. But out age difference is huge.. Im 22 an shes 17.. but when we met she was 15 an I was 20 so I just stayed her friend.

She started to date this guy an we stayed friends, didnt think nothin of it. Bout 2 months ago, they broke up.. an we chill a lot more now. Then about a month ago, we started gettin serious, like we both into eachother.. its deeper than jus sexual for me which is nice for a change.. cause we were friends first.

We havent done anything but Im lovin every minute Im with her.. an she says she feels the same.

But heres where I need the advice..

Two weeks ago she went with her family on a camping trip, I was nervous cause I usually hook up with random bitches when I go camping. But I find out two days before she gets back that her ex-boyfriend drove up an spent the last week chillin with her fam.. an that they slept together one night while she was wasted.

Now shes back, regrets it all an still wants to keep pursuin this shit with me... so I mean I really really liked this girl, we're practically best friends before this happened. We hadnt done anything an we werent goin out so technically she hasnt doen anything wrong.. I cant really be mad, but if I take her back Ill be goin againt all the things Ive told myself an believed the past few years.

Am I bitch to take her back?

I aint been in a relationship in a long time so it could be that whole 'I just want to be loved' sorta thing like she gives me the attention I need or want. So I could be blinded by those facts but at the same time, I could lose the best thing I ever had just because its against the whole 'I dont love no hoes' persona, that I live by.

Theres no one I can talk to about this cause my parents are devout christians, so their advice wont matter an all my friends are idiots lol..

So why not ask complete strangers an jus see the results.

HELP A CRACKA OUT!

Am I bitch to take her back?

Yes....you are a bitch to take her back

she slept with the other man...so fuck that hoe.She probably a slut anyways.You'll get over a bitch in no time.In the meantime...porno is you life :thumbup:

my bad didnt relise this was in cerebral approach.

ok, i suggest you simply do whats best in your heart bro..take a serious look at the situation and make a wise decision.

Thas the thing, this ex of hers is the only guys shes ever fucked. So I know she aint a slut in that sense, shes been with other guys, no big deal but shes only fucked one guy, which I cant say for myself so who am I to say shit.

This is probably the hardest decision ever, I still need more advice lol..

OK...you just said it's no big deal that she fuqed a guy.So OK....that's it..go fuck her now yourself.
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.If it was me..I wouldn't go back to her...but you don't care about her fuckin a guy...so wtf you need advice for?GO FUCK HER!! :hump:

One thing you need to make sure... If you like the gurl as much as you say you do... Pride will not be an issue, so dont stress that " am I a bitch " shit. Personally I think the age diffence might be the problem in the longer run. Figuring your probably more responsible and mature than she is. Especially if she cant handle being waisted and handling her emotions properly... Its tough, hell im havin problems myself with this gurl, lol... But it all comes down to what you think... The main thing is,

Is it worth It?

just ask youself questions. Act as if your the one looking at the situation as an outsider. It helps me out when I relax and do that. Im just sayin, if her emotions were all towards you. Then she would have told the ex to stay away, and keep your feelings put first. Im not tryna be the bad guy and tell you bullshit or nothin. Just dont get yourself in a situation of hurt, no matter how good it is... This is my motto... " Satan has many faces "

goodluck though man, I hope it all works out for you...

Man........ Go and break her ex boyfriends nose for messing with ya girl for starters............... Shits touchy, but if your that into the bitch that you wanna give her a second chance then maybe you should just do it.. But make it known you aint up for no bullshit and if it happens again shes gone........

But seriously... You need to go find her ex and power slam the kid onto concrete or else hell just keep makin moves on her when your not around..

Nos is actually right. If you all start going out, you need to go to the guy and kick his ass to show shes yours now. Age is nothing as long as you all don't do anything. If you all enjoy spending time together, then keep spending time with her. Best thing to do is to keep being a friend, everything will go on from there. She was wasted, everyone who drinks has been there before. Now if she becomes pregnant, that's a whole nother story.

Oh man... If she becomes preggas and it aint yours... Kick her skank ass to the curb..

Then make her bite the curb.

^haha wordup @ the pregnant tip.

Preciate the advice, Im use some of it.. I was thinkin sorta the same thing, I wanna keep pursin this, I jus needed the reassurance that it aint a mistake.

Im goin to talk to her an see what shes thinkin, cause only seen her once since she got back. My brother, which also my best friend said the same hting as yall.

Good looks..

u should try to make it clear to her that u two are now more than friends, and u wont tolerate her fucking other men

You should make her wear a leash..

I agree with Nostradamus. You need to find her ex and beat the shit outta him. I can't help you with your girl though because it's your own feelings. You do what you feel is right, and don't worry about what everyone else thinks of you. You do need to catch her ex slippin' though. He deserves a beat down.

Whats funny is her ex has no idea bout me an her, hes only 17. I knew him before I knew her, an he used to be the biggest queer, not literally but I got him into Hip Hop an all that shit. He calls jus to chill or ask if I have any new songs out yet an shit.

Hes even more of a bitch than she is, Im pretty sure if I even threatened him, hed never talk to her again.

Preciate the real advice tho..