My opinion on gender tension in modern society
Okay I think the reason why some men get uncomfortable when they see women in power is because of the CCC(consecutive compassion complex). Sorry for this comparasin, but imagine a boy that's 5 years old. You're conditioned to be tender, careful, and delicate to him while also protecting him. Now imagine that he becomes your boss and now you have to do what he says. Now you're looking at a complete paradox in polarity here. You now have to make a decision on outlook, where you now have to look at this 5 year old as a superior and no longer as someone who you have to protect, this could cause a bit of disturbance and then it would seem unreasonable to now have to adjust from seeing him as a superior then turning around and being delicate with him. Now the roles of women are liberal and are changing to much higher empowering and basically justified ranks, while needless to say the male role is pretty much the same and has been since forever. But now men are in a spot where some just don't know how to look at themselves as a whole and exactly how they're supposed to look at others. Since women basically have universal liberties in society, the male role is stil lthe same and a man wouldnt' be considered a man if he played the role previously(actually presently) considered as a woman's role. Which is staying at home and doing housework. And since a man can't strike a woman, be too rough with a woman, and since popular custom in dating makes it a standard for the man to cater to a woman, it's no longer a give and take relationship. Where one partner does one and the other does another, now it's kind of take and take. So I think before a psychologists in a woman's only magazine/tvshow SOMEHOW links male anger and discomfort to the jungle and warped ass chemical science, I suggest people look to the present and try to remain open and not to judge what you're probably ignorant to.
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