maybe im just a fuckin idiot
 

but i cant figure out how to send a PM.. i went in private messages, i can read them, i can reply to them, i can delete them, but i dont see a button or action to make a new one and put some ones name in, i clicked all over the friggin page so tell me.. whats the secret to it???

go to user cp and on the right under the `private message` list says `send new message`

This should be in WEC..

and another way to PM a user, click on their name.. then click where it says PM THIS USER.