Friend Or Girlfriend
 

If you like a girl but she doesn't like you the same way back do you think it is better to keep her as a friend or not talk to her at all? And do you think in the future it is possible something could come out of you two staying friends?

I know where you are coming from and the feeling is horrible, I actually have a really good friend who I had a crush on in a really big way. I have known him for over four years now. I first met him when I was with an ex at uni. The first time I saw him I was infatuated. I knew it was wrong and distanced myself from him as a result. Four years down the line we are really good friends and the ex is gone and we are really good friends, I told him how I felt many moons ago and we are still good friends. There is a possibility to take it further - but I prefer our friendship it is tight and secure and is good to have a strictly plutonic male friend. It is so refreshing.

My advise is to not push it and if something is to happen between the two of you it would happen in it's own time.

nuf luv - poisenous_tongue

not so poisenous tonight

lol, my friend is goin through this right now!!.....his girl friend just broke up wit him and dont like him as much as he does.......he accepted it and is now really good friends wit her.....i suggest if ur havin those problems.......stay being a friend...instead of losing something precious :thumbup:

Man, get over her... And try to get her to hook you up with some of her friends.

Rofl No one listen to nos for girl talk EVER.

yeh,this a girls a girl... try not to get so hooked up on one.

like the saying goes, a fisherman caches more than one fish a day... or somthing like that :)

dont become her friend if you want to go out with her
the only way your gonna get her, if shes a populor girl
that you may have a crush on then you have to be more of a
friend she can run to with her problems for advice
her boyfriend wont have all answers, a boyfriend is just the figure
head to talk about shit. or just take sterioids and act badass.
its how all men do it. ;)

Lmao Did I miss something?
I didnt read the thread, just got the jist of it..

I've always been a heartless bastard..

I want to know why this is in cerbral apporach? and nos you missed everything int his deep and meaningfull thread.

I hate when u fall for a friend. I'm goin thru a similar thing, I met this guy when i was like 13/14 and even then there was chemistry between us, everyone mentions it when we're together and we went out for a (very) breif period because i didnt want a relationship at that time. We've been friends 4 a few years now and the chemistry's still the same. Neither of us has properly tried to take it further, I think out of fear of disappointment more than anything else, so we're just friends. I'm planning on staying his friend and if anything happens between us, that would be great, but if it doesnt-one more friend couldnt hurt! :S

You Should Keep Talkin To Her Cause She Could End Up Liking You If You Just Stop Talkin To Her Then You Will No Chance Of Her Liking You