Relationship Dilemma !
 

Ok let me break down the facts for everyone, and if you got any advice post it here..

Ive been dating this girl Maryann for about 8 months, and i know thats not a long time but i do love her. She's been there for me and vice versa. But recently she lost her job her house and she gave custody of her daughter to her ex for 6 months and now he's fighting for custody which i think he'll win. Anyways, she moved in with me and everything was fine until a couple weeks ago. She started getting whiny and she always complains about something or gets an attitude with me over little things so its really stressing me out. So now for the twist..... An old friend of mine popped into my life again and i've been kicking game to her for over 2 years, and she used to blow me off cuz she was with someone.. but i always knew she wanted to be with me. So now im stuck in between a rock and a hard place, they both look good, and theyre both smart. And theyre cool people to chill with... But ill feel terrible if i just drop Maryann while she's going through all this shit. But deep down i know i have more feelings for the other girl.

And ideas ......?

Just bang both of them..

If you ditch the whiney chick, is there a guarantee that the other chick won't be as whiney?

No, there's not. So, a man would just bang both of them.. then change your name and move to North Dakota.

Find out more about the other girl like enygma said find out if she'll act the same as Maryanne first, cuz you could go to the other girl and then she ends up being the same way and you're fucked.

trust me when i tell you this.........get that chick OUT oF YOUR HOUSE BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE
trust me
u dont want her getting comfortable, she wont help herself if she feels she can stay
and get with the other chick, u might regret it if u stay with this one

never leave the person u love for the person u like cuz the person u like will leave u for the person they love.
^^^lol

but anyways, this is such a bad situation. u may have more feelings for the other girl now but thats jus because u couldnt have her back in the day and u wanna see wat u were missin. well thats never gonna work cuz u say u love the girl ur wit now, u may not grow to love the 'old friend' hold on to ur girl, work thru these things together, giv her sum space, shes coping with a lot rite now, shes bound to be depressed/snappy. Love takes work and time but its all worth it.

that works for GROWN ADULTS
most people on this site is in love for the 1st time, or in lust so strong they think they in love.................trust me, u got plenty time to settle down
better try other flavors before the kitchen closes...u feel me?

he is grown. hes 24.

ok let me be more specific
love is a long term investment
if its love u cant fight it, u'll know
but if your not sure, u owe it to urself to take the time to find out
so take a step back and evaluate ur situation FI
there is no rush, and u might be missing out on the best years by being with someone so unstable....whatever man do you
just my opinion that lifes too short for what ifs............

no1 can be 100% sure about anything so hes obvioulsy gna be wondering. theres always 'what ifs' i mean if he follows ur advice and goes wit the girl that just came back into his life and it doesnt work out, hes gonna be like 'what if i stayed wit my girl and worked wit her' so either way it sux. u just havta choose how u wanna play it.

Don't waste your time cheating. Just leave em BOTH! Why do you need someone else? That's my question, kick that crazy bitch out the fuckin house, first and foremost. No mom who's gonna lose their kid is what ANYONE would consider "responsible" - you really have to think of the gravity of something like that happening because that's not a decision that someone makes on a whim. You arent the first person to make the mistake of trying to tame her (evidence is the kids father who I'm sure she has GREAT reasons why he's such a horrible guy). I'd say "fuck you" to both of em and clean the slate. Both of em seem to have some major malfunction - so why settle for garbage? If the time's not right, the time's not right, you don't ALWAYS have to be dating someone. I know you like the pussy and all that man, but both these chicks seem to have glaring defects, so why pick either one?

P.S. If you think that a chick you've been trying to ge with for 2 years is gonna call you out of the blue for "love", you're delusional. That's temporary at best. I bet some dude prolly jsut broke up with her and you're in a position called "rebound".

I mostly agree with Dooms......but I would also fuck the chick that came back for you just so you don't feel like you missed out on anything :thumbup:™

take 1 n send tha utha 1 2 me, werd

So you say you love Mary Ann but you got more feelings for the other girl? Sounds confusing to me...

And she has damn enough reason to be whiney...how'd you feel if you were in her shoes?