Whew. Wasn't expecting this.
 

So my woman has been having an affair for a month, ever since she was healed from having our daughter.

LOL ouch at me.

dude, for real??? what the fuck. How'd you find out?

She told me.

Fucking bitch.

I KNEW something was going on.

-_-

dude, thats even fucking more intense. Any real reasons?? You sure she wasn't fuckin round on you before the baby n shit?? U 2 married or what?

Engaged.

And no, its been since Bridgette was born.

And I suppose I am kind of an asshole, so I suppose that would be a reason.

I dunno man.

My guess is as good as yours lol.

i unno man, sounds like you blamin yourself for the whole thing by saying you an asshole and shit. But usally its not always just one person's fault, specially after having a baby togeather that a partner cheats. I would def. not put the blame all on myself, i mean sure..we all have bad quailtys and shit. Like i can some times be really quick to get pissed at my girlfreind for dumb shit, but she can be a real bitch sometimes too--n she knows it. Just hope you dont turn into a fucking pussy like Poetic's dumb ass. But that shit dont bother you that some other dude been with your old lady??

oh man :(

well this certainly iznt going to help wif my problem of being sexist :/ stay up spicca, werd

Then I lost all respect for what I knew of your girl, man.

Later.

Blaming myself..?

Nah.

That's just her excuse.

And honestly, it bothers the fuck out of me man. I just created a new life with this girl out of love, and now it's thrown back in my face.

3 years down the drain.

Of course it bothers me man, I'm just mature enough to deal with it and move on.

And it's pretty ironic that this guy is a huge fan of my music, and his favorite song is "Knight in Shining Armour", which was inspired by Jenn (girl in question here).

So yeah.

Pretty big kick in the fucking balls.

But whatever.

-Smokes Weed-

Smoke the fuck up dude... I just got my feelings hurt, not like that, but like in a way that didn't hurt my feelings, just angered me a little for even being myself about the situation.

Girls can be as ruthless as guys, even worse, don't put up with that shit, but be there more than her for your daughter.

I hate to say it but marriages are ruined all the time thanks to cheating, now yours might be, if I was in your situation, who knows what I would do.

Good luck and best of wishes.

Thanks man.

Honestly I don't know what do to do, but my daughter is my NUMBER ONE priority.

A few ideas have been tossing around in my mind:

A) Ignorance is bliss. Be the asshole that she acuses me of being and just not care, cause honestly, I'm not sure if I even really do anymore. This guy is a serious downgrade...and honestly I laugh at the thought of her stooping that low.

B) Forgive her and move on with our lives. Not for the sake of us, I am strictly thinking of my daughter in this situation. I want to be there for my baby girl everyday, I want to be home everynight...I WANT TO BE THERE. And if we break up, I will not get to do that.

C) I deserve WAY better than this shit. Now that all of this has surfaced, it appears that I am not always the bad guy, so now, I'm going back and thinking of when she did acuse me of shit, knowing I didn't, and now its all starting to make sense.

So yeah.

Life is awesome! :thumbup:

Lol.

wait, so you know this dude?? Or how does he know your music??

Yeah, i can see your point on how bad you feel. I dont know what i'd do if my girlfreind cheated on me, we are due--a lilttle baby girl, any day now. May 12 was the due date...but shes a stubborn lil one. So, like i orignally stated, i hope everything works out for you L

Yeah I know this guy.

I know where he lives too, and that is the advantage that he does not have against me.

He's a huge fan of my music...everytime I did see him it was always on his iPod.

But thanks man...and good luck with your baby. :thumbup:

all i can think of saying is

"Wait, maybe theres an explaination for this shit!"

"What?! She tripped, fell, landed on his dick?

man, what a fucking bitch. You should go whoop his fucking ass :thumbup:

n i appreicate the support, i'll def. post pictures up. How old's your lil girl ne ways??