Look man im in one right now. My girls in California im in Oklahoma (Because of the Military) Man Ive been away from her for 2 years now. Only times i get to see her is when i go on leave. Dawg its hard as fuck to make it work. All kinds of shit gets in the way. Sometimes i feel like it aint worth it no more. But i dont know. She makes it hard sometimes for me. Ill tell you one thing i noticed man, she doesnt try as much as she used to. She was so perfect in my eyes, now im not so sure. I just hope she pulls her head out of her ass and realizes what shes doin. The odds are against you. And suspisions will run wild. Yo man we've been together for 5 1/2 years and it seems like to her that that doesnt matter anymore. I mean the whole reason i came into the Military was for her and to get away from the bullshit and have a better life. I dont know man just thinking about this fucking pisses me off. But thats my personal experience. But dont let anyone tell you something wont work.