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Originally Posted by High Class
Im in one right now, cause I had to move later last year. And me and my girl are going through some really hard shit. But she is perfect, like personality and everything. I dont know what to do, or whats best for us. Does anyone have any experience on this, or any advice or thoughts on a long distance relationship. I want to stay with here, but were probably not going to see each other for a long while... Be serious on this, cause im not pulling any strings on everyone.
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I didn't read all the posts.. as I don't feel like clicking through 4 pages.
I'm not going to get into my personal life, but I have had experience with long distance relationships. Basically, it puts any relationship to an extreme test. When you are with someone, you really don't have to do THAT much talking and conversing. You can go to movies, mall, or wherever, and since you are active, there really isn't a need to be talking at all times. This is what makes having a 'short distance' relationship so much easier. With your long distance relationship, you are going to have to talk to her for at least an hour or two a day. Not that many couples can have something to talk about for this amount of time continually.. which leads to boredom on both sides. Boredome in any relationship is a HUGE problem. This, along with the trust issues are what makes long distance relationships not work out most of the time.
The reason I stuck with my relationship is because I couldn't picture me being happier with someone else. So I'd say to stay with her if you think you have a serious future with her. However, if you can't trust her and get bored talking to her easily, do yourself a favor and break up now. Oh, and if you are a horny bastard, you might want to break up with her too, as you don't know when the next time is you'll be 'gettin some'
(that was way too long of a post from me..
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