I don't think there was any intercourse.

Needed? Well, one could argue it was. Provided the intenese if not suffocating atmosphere...of the relationship and situation as a whole.

But then again, it could also be seen as a half-artistic attempt at titilation.

It doesn't matter.

The second question is kind of inane. And you seemed to have written it in a rushed and unsure way.

I don't know what you mean by 'disgrace in our family' and 'sell outs'. Cos i don't know what you're referring to. Sex in movies? You mean mainstream movies? Or you talking about real life?

Either way, women get just as much disgrace if not MORE (actually they do get more in general) from their own cultures.