Yes, coupled with a bit more maturity.Mental/social maturity helps to bring about even more of a developed craft. I can see that you write to help ease your tension/get some things off your chest. That is very good; in fact, I believe that it is the first step towards true and beautiful art.

On relationship advice (usually depending on maturity level/the manner in which the relationship ended) , ex mates tend to just love when they see their ex-sweethearts experiencing pain and even going as far as expressing it. Always know that everything happens for a reason and listen, it is much better to get out of something that is not real a few months or even a few years after it starts.. it could have been 10 years of an illusion, 10 years of misery (for both of you) and of course once familiariality sets in, it is harder and harder to break away.

So.. Continue to grow as a woman, as an artist.. and then you will be better able to use your craft to help other people to grow as well.

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Aluta Continua.. Victory is certain!