because when you couldnt care less one way or another about a girl you act like a man around her and tease her and stuff just treat her like one of the guys...which is what women are really looking for...

and when you really have a crush on a girl you get all pussy around her like trying to only say shit not to offend her and complimenting her all the time and buying her shit and just generally acting like a girl...major turn-off to women...

heres what you do...next time you like a girl just try treating her like you dont care one way or another...shes gonna test you but if you stick to your guns it should work out better for you...all she wants is for you to be a man...watch abc sitcoms and then act the opposite of how the men on there act and youll be right where you need to be...

i think i just moved from the cool teacher to the cool guidance counselor...

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