im sayign u cant compare a man to a women.. emotionally or physically.. men are stronger.. im not saying smater, im saying, that what cali said was out of line.. what she went thru is enuff to make alot of people, who are emotionally strong commit suicide and shit, let alone women, who are very emotionally in touch.. you cant compare emotions of a man to that of a women... thats what im saying.. that is in a lot of cases a weaknes for women.. men are less emotionally attached.. thats what i mean by stronger.. DQ..