i think da show is called change of heart....if a couple is havin problems they go ta dat show...they set up dates like the girlfriends goes on a date with some one she hasnt met..the boyfriend goes on a date with some one he hasnt met...they do this to see if they actually love there boyfriend or girlfriend...and if they dont love them and like the person they went on a date with they hold up a sign that says CHANGE OF HEART..get it now