Actually thats not it^^

lets say if your with someone you love.. you guys have been together for 40 years.. and then out of no where that person dies.. you can't keep their house, you don't get the money ya share.. you wont have ur cable.. u will loose ur car etc.. because it was owned by that other person.. and you always depended on that person.. then now that person is gone.. u won't beable to survive with no home or anything..

or lets say ya stayed together for four years and that person is in a condition in the hospital where they are only living because a machine is acting as if it was their lungs to give him/her air.. and then you know that person is suffering and u can't stand to see her suffer.. so wen if you were married.. u could have the choice turn off the machine and stop letting him/her suffering by dying immideatly.. but then if u wern't married.. you would have no choice at all and see em suffer for as long as possible...

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