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Originally Posted by daubs
i understand, but a lot of things could have stopped her dieng, if it wasnt raining bad, she didnt watch my football match, i rang her later and other stuff. thanks for not hating, i appreciate all the love to her.
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Don't blame yourself man. Just chill. Think about things logically.
With every choice you make, a whole different future that was possible gets eliminated. But not just you, that happens to everybody. So every choice made by you, her, the driver, and even other people caused what happened to happen. Shit wasn't solely your fault.
With that said, you should use this basically as a lesson. Think about the choices you make because they destroy futures, just as the choices you made in the past made the present. If you beat yourself up about this whole thing and get hung up on it, your whole mentality will change. And thats a choice you made that could change your life. You might end up some druggo goth, instead of something more.
I kind of went off on a confusing tangent. But what i'm basically trying to say is chill.
anyway... You and the cats involved got my condolences.