people define maturity in different ways
they also see different people as mature or not

i mean if they see a well-to-do person with a good job, a nice life and who's got their shit together they will think mature
and if they see some layabout who has no job and spends all day just chillin with his/her friends they will think probably not mature

but i have a good job, no financial problems, got my girl.....we lookin to start a family so people would most likely think i am mature
but that is wrong, i can be mature YES
but i am naturally a joker....all i ever do is clown around, even at work i dont take anything seriously unless it is required

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