i feel ya anger man... been there and done that... but at the same time, i've always judged people individually... being in the Army, i'm forced to deal with people of all races and origins and we all work together just fine... interracial relationships are regular things in the military... whites with blacks, blacks with islanders, whites with islanders, blacks and whites with asians, hispanics with asians , blacks, and whites... it doesn't end... look at the individual not the race... the people that are hung up on the whole race thing are stuck in a time warp and are scared of wht they don't know or understand... fuck those people .. you just know who you are and focus on those that have a positive influence in ya life