Originally Posted by schema

^dont do this...

ever...

just because you made this thread it shows me your mind's not right...

you can only fuck it up by planning it out...just be yourself around her...your REAL self...not the clingy pussy that wants to come out when you see a hot girl...i was that guy for like years...it never will get you anything...get her number like the next time you see her...sitting around and waiting before you ask for a girls number is rediculous...you should always get her number the first time you see her...a girl will give her number to any guy that she is REMOTELY interested in...its like the first step...

aim for getting at least three numbers a day (and giving her yours)...its really not as hard as you think its gonna be...just introduce yourself to everyone you see especially hot girls...strike up conversations for like 5 minutes then be like "well it was nice meeting you...give me your number and ill call you whenever i get a chance"...like 999 out of a thousand girls will give you their numbers after theyve been standing there talking to you for a few minutes...if they werent into you they wouldve found an excuse to leave by now...

like half the girls wont answer their phone when you call back...and half of the ones that do wont wanna chill...but if youre getting three numbers a day thats like 5 girls a week that wanna chill...youre not gonna have time to sweat one girl that may or may not like you...plus all your friends will think you are the biggest fucking pimp ever...and youll start to get that cocky little "what do i need you for ive got 100 girls in my phone that i could call right now" swagger that girls go crazy for...

its like learning to ride a bike...its a little sketchy at first but after you do it for a while its so fucking easy...i swear the words roll off my tounge i dont even think about it...you should get every cute girl's number that is willing to talk to you for more than 5 minutes...because obviously shes interested...

the two biggest problems that guys like you make is that a.) you plan shit waaaaay too much...and b.) you think somethings wrong with you if a girl doesnt like you...

like 75% of the girls who's numbers you get wont be into you when you call...maybe she changed her mind...maybe she was mad at her bf that day and theyre back together now...who cares...the other 25% will be more than enough...

im way off on a tangent...what is this thread about...

oh yeah...dont get too hung up on this girl...asking her out is a bad idea if you mean like "will you be my girlfriend" asking her out...never lay all your cards down like that...

but if you mean like asking her out to dinner...or a movie<---bad date idea but you get the point...then just ask her...if she says no...who gives a fuck...the world is full of hot girls that are waiting for you to ask them out...dont spend time sweating her...

go in with that attitude...

and dont plan what youre gonna say or how youre gonna set it up either...unless youre asking her to marry you its gonna come off cheezy as hell...and no matter what she says there will be a long awkward pause...

just get the digits call her up and tell her youre going out to dinner does she wanna come...

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