I said it only once and that was when mumbling along with a song, I didn't even realize I said it at first so.

I'll never use the word to refer to someone, I just never use it. Period

Even when people tell me they don't mind and it's okay if I do because they know me and they know I won't say it to offend them, I still won't. It's a matter of mutual respect to me.

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