ok let me be more specific
love is a long term investment
if its love u cant fight it, u'll know
but if your not sure, u owe it to urself to take the time to find out
so take a step back and evaluate ur situation FI
there is no rush, and u might be missing out on the best years by being with someone so unstable....whatever man do you
just my opinion that lifes too short for what ifs............