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Originally Posted by Drama Queen
Wanting to commit suicide does not mean you are a weak person. I know someone who has been through several attempts and to actually go through with it, you cannot be weak. Imagine you're sitting there with razor blade or overdose pills or whatever but you still have to take that final step. I don't think I could do it, I'm too much of a coward to try to kill myself. You have to realize the state of mind they are in at that exact point, they have the choice between to live or to die. They can end their life right there, a weak person wouldn't come that far. A weak person would just hide, run away from problems and sink even deeper. But someone who wants to commit suicide decides for himself he doesn't want to live this life anymore and that he doesn't want to run anymore but just end it all...that's not weak in my eyes...
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ive had 3 people in my life commit suicide, 1 of them was extremely close to me(not goin to explain exactly how close cos that shit is jus too deep)... people get in that suicidal state of mind because things get hard, they cant cope with what life is throwing at them, they quite simply are not strong enough to fight through it and go on, so they look for the quick and easy way out of it, n the only way is death... example, the person i talked about previously took her life cos her brother was killed in a car crash, now that kid was like family to me, plus i was having family troubles aswell as bein in trouble with sum bad people, and at the time we just found out my grandad was slowly dieing, n then she commited suicide cos she cudnt live without her brother..... now thats enough shit to drive people to suicide in a split second, i could have let it drag me down, n get suicidal, instead i didnt, i stayed strong, i continued to fight through the hard times and here i am happier than ever. i never even concidered suicide, all i ever thought was, im goin to get through it.
suicidal people have been proven to be self centered because they feel takin their own life isnt going to effect anybody else around them.
the fact that when times get rough, and u want a quick way out of it instead of fighting through it, makes you weak... plain n simple