I'm not her eto attack or judge you homey, I know lots of peopel who have been in that situation. You have an important decision man, and I really don't think you're going to get the insight you need on a rap board to be honest. The questions you're asking us are questions you should be asking your self. And you have to be reeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaallllll honest with your self in order to make the right decision. There's a lot to consider man and only you can decypher what's right for you or not.


GL man. Take some time to your self and clear your head. Sit with her. Talk with her. It' not about you, since you're not the one carrying a child at the moment, she is. An abortion is hard on a womans body, AND her mind and if she already feels some resistance to the concept, she's going to be crying and feeling depressed and devestated for at least a week, so consider what you'd be utting her through as well. Don't make a decision yet! Clear your head first, then ask her questions. Let her ask you questions, I mean sit down and REALLY talk to the real her. Marinate on the answers, sleep on it a day or three, then see how you both feel and go with that.

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