well in all reality internet dating is dumb. But internet dating consists of people that do nothing but stay online all day saying they wish they could hold eachother...and talk on the phone and stay up late on the computer to talk.instead of actually being face to face they are insecure and not confident enough to meet this person. But..Meeting someone OFF the net..is not too much stupid if u know the person your meeting well enough to trust that they are telling the truth. and that youv'e seen more than one picture ...or make them take pix for you to make sure its that person. gotta be careful tho. people die from meetin people off the net..