^^parents have kids just to make them feel more important dude. make em feel like they're important to somebody and have a purpose in life, to fulfill themself. when you start growing up and away from their dependance you start chipping away at that fulfillment fantasy they had.

look at how much advice your parents give you...then think of how much of that is in YOUR best interest, vs. how much of that is in THEIR best interest. You know what I mean, "don't worry bout what YOU want to do for your self... you should go to this college or that college and become this so your parents can brag to their friends that you're a doctor/lawyer/etc etc etc".

I'm not sayin your parents are bad people. I'm jsut accepting reality.

makes things a lot easier that way.

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