once in awhile i'll say that ta describe who im talkin bout but i try not too cuz of the same reason u feel...but when i say it, it's not putting u or any other black person under me or my race its juts like sayin "the guy wit the red shirt" or "the guy wit the blonde hair" it's just sumthin physically describing you....but naww nobody is under nobody...there is no such thing as a minourity unless u think of urselves as minouritys