I used to feel nervous and shy around pretty females because, as you know, I'm not of that persuasion, per se.  Well, I started noticing a couple years ago that some girls started to view me as conceited.  I'd go out in public and notice some chick checkin me out.  On a couple of occasions, they'd even have their friend approach me like, "My friend wanna talk to you."  But, I'd always find an excuse why I had to run.  I was nervous as heck that I'd somehow say something to make myself look like a complete idiot in front of them.  Plus, I knew that I wasn't physically attracted to females much at the time.  Anyway, I came to a conclusion.  I don't have to promise anything just to talk to a female.  So, when I'm out in public now, I even turn on the charm when I sense a female giving me attention. 
 Like, the other day I was in the grocery store and this hot little number was infront of me in line.  I was checkin' her out.  After a cashier opened up a new lane, she ran over and got in the new, shorter line.  So, I followed behind her.  When she turned around, I gave her a lil smile like, "I'm not followin you, I promise."  Or, when I'm out somewhere and see a pretty chick workin in a dirty job (fast food, etc) I'll say, "What you doin workin here?  You're way too good lookin."  That usually gets them all smiley.
haaaa...
Well, I guess there's no more dillema.  But, it just sucks bein so SEGGSAY! 
 
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