lmao Ok I didnt explain myself good enough. It's definetly a respect thing. I mean if some girl walkd in on her man with another... man she would FLIP. But since nowadays the majority of men would walk in on that and say YEAAAAAAAAAAAAH WOO HOOO, that makes it much easier for girls to cheat with other girls. I guess I vibe with my girlfriends much differently. They're usually not just an accessory who I could care less about, but a partner who I actually have feelings for. Most people's relationships aren't like that. And to nos's comment about going full les, odds are is if she could do it in the 1st place there's a balancing scale going back and forth on what she actually wants..