hmm, I think it runs deeper than indvidualism. As far as I have learnt, its stretched over a few broadened topics.
it reflects on socrates, plato, Kierkegaard's point of views on topics.
I feel it has a incorrect side to it, stating love is mearly to desire,to desire is mearly to seek, but why seek what you allready posses if your in love?
I feel love can allways be bettered, its not a product of eternal search.
But in saying that, I guess it reflects alot on certain mindstates,some people may fall in love with a female, then feel its not what they have been desiring simply because there is no goal ahead of what they have allready "captured". basically it depends on the certain perspective, hence why its a philisophical catagory.