Sometimes the vibe of someone is detectable and it automatically clicks for you. Words aren't the only way to speak. EDIT: The vibe connection is one of the most honest ones. You can trust this more than alot of other connections. You gotta definetly find out if he's gay/bi or not because even if you don't say it, odds are he's gonna get the feeling you're feeling him more than in a friend way. Just let it out, and if you're good enough friends with him even if he's strait he'll be coo with you still just a little more distant. But if hes gay than, you're pretty much can do the young joc dance.