Well that's the thing, I've been put down by people for ages and it's left me feeling unsexy. But the thing is I used to be a bit tubby but now I work out a lot and am 6 ft 3 with pretty phat muscles and that in itself is pretty fucking sexy. But I just use my humour on them and then slide my arms round them and start holding them, then go in for the kiss. It works loads, you should try it.