This wouldn't even be neccecery if people would just be upfront about their intentions. If you wanna be friends with the girl then theres no prob. If u want more than say it, if she wants u thats her, if she doesnt then thats it. She might even change her mind. It's not that complicated. People need to stop violating people's trust and shit. I hate when some girl is my "friend" and the whole time shes after more shit. I dunno, I have a shitload to say about girls and their love for assholes, but I'm kinda doing good with girls right now so I'm not gonna bitch.